Saturday, February 25, 2012

DATE 2 WITH TANKER TRUCK :)


DATE #1

I went on a quick lunch date with Mr. Tanker Truck. I told you guys about him before..I met him a while back on A.M...we had great chemistry but I stop talking to him because my P.C. caught a virus from one of my shady POTS. ....not him.
So, we went to a chain resturant. I didnt mind because my B.F. was getting off soon and it was on my way to his house (3 exits away). We laughed and ate an extremely quick meal. I gave him my spill about being a broke college student...lol. hE GAVE ME $60.00 for gas. It was appreciated. He said he wasn't comfortable with paying for my company...so I suggested that he put the money on my reloadable gift card, or to load up a money pack and I'lll load it up on my card...he agreed that that felt better to him He emailed me that he really enjoyed our date and would love to go foward. He said that we should go on another date and then maybe get a hotel...
OKKKKAY I said and was ready to roll.


DATE #2

I had a great day. It did't start off that way it sucked but got good and then aggrivating (read last post). I went on a 2nd date with Tanker Truck. We met and had lunch. I was late again W.T.F (It was a cop on the highway and everyone in front of me was going 2 mph) but only by 5 mins. When I got there he was already eating..lol. NICE! lol Who does that?
We have the best time in the world. He always has tears coming down my eyes. I laugh so loud with him and it's because he's not trying to be anyone but hisself...and you got to love that. Right?


We had the whole resturant looking at us. It was soooooo fun. We talked so long 3 hrs. I think. He forgot that he had to take his car to the mechanic in his town by 3pm, he lives at least a hr. away...
Poor Guy ...haha

So we didn't get a chance to finish our conversation about my allowance. He told me to take my time to think about it. I told him that I knew what I wanted and that I  liked genuinely him and I wasn't meeting him and laughing my ass off for nothing, I was being sincer.

But then we got off subject  for only  2 seconds...he looks at his phone and said "Awwww Shit! I got to go!"
...and ran out of there like Cinderella...lol


But, he sent me text messages saying that he really enjoyed our date and look forward to seeing me.
I was hoping that he would have had the allowance with him on this date and we could have got the ball rolling...that's what happens when you meet off of A.M. (eye roll)


He kept saying that he hoped that he could keep up with my allowance requirements. Whatever.
He's in sales...and has been for over 20+ years...Don't try to use those sells tactics on me..lol


I told him I'm sure you'll do just fine and we'll be just fine...lol
He laughed because he likes honest people.

So as I stated before we had a ball on those two dates. I really enjoyed being with him. So I check my G.VOICE and he left text message stating that he enjoyed hisself...he then left me an email saying the samething. The next day this is the email that he sent me...
Don't you Felines love reading my mail.......lol


Hi Baby,


I tried to call and talk with you yesterday after we met and left a msg... is your #***-***-****? Your not getting my text's either. I thoroughly enjoy you. I appoligize for having to take off so quick, but time fly's when we are together ( good sign, but sucks when time is limited). I need to know what type of "help" is needed on your monthly budget. Yes, I want to move forward now, but how you respond will say weather I can go forward.


I hope you understand, as I have another involved in certain aspects of my world.


Regards,

Tanker Truck


ME:
 I would like a monthly allowance of $2500.


Caramelllseduction,


I'm sorry...I can't move on that. If you like to have lunch sometime give me a call...I think your a special young lady.

Regards,
 Tanker Truck




ME:
what did you have in mind?
Tanker Truck:
I'm reluctant to say as we were MILES apart. I'm no veteren of this SD world by no means, but I'm not that far up the food chain, and someone who is... would maybe not flinch. I have done the escort thing two times and you are way above that market place. Your an awesome young lady who is fun to be with, and I'm blessed to have met you, as you truly make the world a better place, and will go very far in life.

Regards,
ME:
I would still like to know. I'm not an escort..by no means and I take personal offense to you saying so. I'm don't need to know market price since I'm not in that field. Hving a sugar relationship is completely different then an escort relationship. WOW! I didnt see this coming.
Tanker Truck:
I'm sorry you took it that way. You made it clear from the beginning you were after an SD (i.e. wanting a two way sugar blvd). As I stated that... yes , I was open to that, and I'm looking for that one special girl that I can treat well and enjoy a few times a month of pleasure, friendship, and to grow that however it may. Maybe my reference of an escort was inappropriate, but I was caught WAY off gaurd by your figure. It certainly was not intended to offend you, and for that I appolligize whole heartedly. In all honesty...I'm very attracted to you already on more than a physical side, and that is what I want. Please dont hate due to my poor choice of wording.
Now, here is the thing. I discussed with him upfront about what I want for my allowance...day 1, he agreed. When we lost touchand  he  reached out to me I retated my allowance and he agreed again. Before our 2nd date I stated my allowance and that's why he said in the email that he hope he can keep up with my allowance.
This M.Fucker pissed me off. I have nothing against escorts. I'm members on some of their blogs. Escorts even state that there is a difference between S.B. and Escorts.
He said that he wouldn't feel right paying for sex but he tells me he had 2 escorts before and Im over market price.
I never responded. Even if he could come up with the $$$$ he broke the chemistry. I never need money that fuckin' bad. Fuckin' POTS from A.M.
So I went right back to my direct approach. If you want to even chat with me you need to tell if you can afford my allowance. What I'm going to adapt to my approach is before I leave out the house for my 1st date I'm going to ask do we agree on my allowance of $2500.
If the POT agrees on the allowance then I will go and see him but if not then there is no reason for us to communicate any farther.
I'm over the "Time Wasters, The Bullshitters, The Picture Collectors, The Gas Wasters, The emailer and Texters, The we'll meet adventually, and The You Can Get Caught On A Date By Your Boyfriend Risk"...lol
I'm not giving up by all means! I'm just going to fat out the fat. What is the "fat" all that I just listed above! haha
This is the other reason why I had a fucked up day Friday! 


KNOW YOUR WORTH & DON'T LET BROKE ASS POTS CONVINCE YOU THAT YOUR NOT WORTH THE ALLOWANCE YOU REQUESTED!


   ~Caramell Seduction

                             SMOOCHIES***

6 comments:

  1. oh I'm very sorry that happened to you!!
    yeah some guys agree in emails but have no memory of that in person....so you gotta remind him of the allowance amount in person on the first date, and also tell him how other guys took advantage of you; then he will give you the generous amount on the first date...that approach worked for me :)

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  2. Georgina SB

    Thank you girl. I couldn't believe it. I thought I took the right precautions to ensure that this wouldn't happen. Should I also ask them threw email are they ready to commit to the agreed allowance and arrangement on the first date if there is chemistry?

    Thanks again & Thanks for reading :)

    SMOOCHIES***

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  3. What a complete waste of your time. I've been there before and hope never to be again. As you say; KNOW YOUR WORTH & DON'T LET BROKE ASS POTS CONVINCE YOU THAT YOUR NOT WORTH THE ALLOWANCE YOU REQUESTED!

    Like the blog :)

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  4. Wow. what an idiot and a waste of time. And I have to say that $2,500 is not over any "market" whether it be an escort or a sugar baby. I charge that for an overnight escorting. You are giving him a couple meets out of the month. Completely different.
    I hate when guys compare the 2. And I also hate when they say they can do something, but when it comes down to it they fall short. Like, dont agree to something you know you cant do!!

    ughh..

    Men.

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  5. O
    Thank you for letting me know that im not alne in this. It was a complete shock and didn't see it coming at all. O, well you live and you learn.

    takeliaSB
    I was starting to question was my $2500 allowance way to much. These men kill me calculating how much it is a year..lol
    I hate when they compare the two also. It doesn't make sense to me and I hope I didnt offend any escorts who read my blog. I respect what they choose to do..I just made a different choice.
    I knew he was lying about the escort thing...because if I was an escort I would charge more then that for a months time also....lol
    Right! Why do they agree to something that they had no intentions on doing? I guess he thought that I was going to like him so much that I was going to say yeah you can give me $500 a month. Shit that isn't even worth the gas ride to him. W.T.F.

    Thank you for reading my blog Felines.

    Know your worth!!!!!!!!!!!

    SMOOCHIES***

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