IM ADDICTED TO THE BOWL!

Picture later & sorry for any typos Ill correct it later  :)


I am so addicted to the Sugary Blogs. Today I had a few hours while at work doing absolutely nothing and I thought about logging on and seeing what my Felines were up to...lol while I slave away at work.

But I chose against that because...being knew I have to learn the ropes before I break them...lol

They know that Im on the net but you never know what type of software is on corporate computers...lol
So for now Ill stay off....
Hmmmm I think Im going to use my netbook while Im sitting in my office bored to death...haha

Sometimes I want to ask them why did they hire me...because I never have anything to do until after 3:30 (my hrs. are from 9-6pm) but of course this Babie isnt going to mess up her money so I keep my mouth closed! lol

Why today did a co-worker of mine (work in a different dept. same building) set me up.
She says your face looks so fimilar. I say do you get your nails done or go to the salons for hair or facial services.
She says yeah when I was in high school.

Then literally 2 sec. later she says do you know *.*.?

I say yes and she has been mean mugging me ever since.

*.*. was my middle school - high school sweet heart (I was in high school he older then me...I always liked then older guys...haha)       and we were together for most of my life.

She started mean mugging me since my first day there.

I believe she knew exactly who I was and was waiting for an oppurtuinty to talk to me.

Now with that being said...I have never been the type of girl that would start something.

I hate bullies!

But, I will finish it! 

*.*. and I  had an on again off again relationship and just about ever summer we would break up (young..it was me not him).

 Well, he would always find a" friends with benefits" type of arrangement.

 Well, when we would get back together I would always have to deal with these girls not realizing that they were just a fuck! lol

So there are a few women now who are still on this...I guess.

Hince Candaceat the job (her real name)..haha

I went home and called him and of course he cant remember her...so I told him I will take a picture of her.

I believe I need to know for 2 reasons.
1. This is my job. I don't have time for high school games.
2. I don't like someone to know about me about me and I have no clue who the hell they are!

She can start something if she wants to. I have a much higher position then she does.

Women if men have a girl that he puts first ...now Im talking R.L. dont degrade yourself to be second for anyone.

Now in the bowl its different because your getting "SOMETHING 4 SOMETHING"......


But know your worth because your diff. worth more then to play second feddle to anyone.

There are signs to when a guy is inlove with someone else.
He usually tells us but we see what we want to see and already start to plan our lives together
and he is clearly showing signs of not being tht into you...lol
1. he doesnt take you to meet family.
2. he thinks your one of the boys and you fall into the "friends category"


So please pay attention to those signs Felines!


O.....P.S.
My boss souded like he was 2 seconds away from asking me to go to Vegas with him...lol
But then he remember where we were at.

He always telling me about how much money he has and how many properties he owns....and today we were talking about the megamillion.



I told him I would give him a Million if my ticket hit....he says "I already have more then a million." I ignored him like I always do...it doesn't impress me unless I'm getting some. I've dated millionaires before...no big deal...they are the same as any other type of my ...they just have more money...So like to share and some don't

So, him saying so to me is like .......eyeroll...lol

He is a very flashy guy...haha

We'll see! He says that he's leave that company soon. He only came to turn it around and put them in the "Black". So, he's training me for his position.


So, He gives me his card to his other companies and tells me to "always keep it because its my get out of jail free card and it will help me out of any pitch"


Sounds like Sugary Promotions if I've ever seen one...haha




Maybe he can be my S.D. after he resigns...haha




I know your worth!
~ Caramell Seduction



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THIS IS A FAKE BABY AND SO ARE MANY OF THE babies ON THESE SITES!!

So, I was on S.A. last night and came across this sexy chocolate man with a beautiful white smile. Damn he was fine! Ya'll know I love to look at all things beautiful.

So we had a great little chat and I asked him had he ever had a S.B. before.
I went to bed and Im just getting back to check my messages and his response was this:

Him:
"Lol!!! No..... Do I look like a SD?"


Me:
There isn't a particular look for a S.D.

How did you hear about the site?

Him:
A chik!!




Ok, so here is my issue with this. He is the 3rd man that I've experienced from this site who thinks that being a S.D. means fuckin' for free and his good looks some how exempts him from having to pay an allowance or any form of allowance being gifts or other...

If I wanted a regular guy with money...to just to brag to all my girlfriends. Example:"yes, my man drives a benz, owns his own house, has a black card" I wouldn't waste countless unbillable man hours on line seeking a real S.D. I would just meet him at the usual water holes.

That means absolutely nothing to me if I'm not eating off of his hardwork.

If Im driving a Benz also why the hell would I care about what you drive?
If I can by my own dinners..then why in the hell would I care about you taking me to dinner?

I have never been the bragging type and has always cared less about what a man has unless he is elevating me along for the ride.

These fake ass sugar babies need to stop telling this guys about the site.

 We already have enough to deal with ruling out the cheap POTS. now we have to deal with a radom everyday dude hearing about it from a fake ass babies.

Everyone can't be a S.D. just like everyone can't be a Babie!

It''s beyond annoying!


How many Felines is starting to feel like me and think the the site is now going for quanity -vs- quality?


I am honestly starting to believe that a lot of these men are lying about their salaries....just like they lied about their sex partners in high school...haha

What was that rule again about men and their sex partners? Apply it to their incomes..that is what they really make!!   lol




I had to write this post.


Plus Felines update your profiles and make them really nice. The increase in action is starting because its getting hotttt outside and S.D. are on the hunt!






Everyone can't be a S.D. just like everyone can't be a Babie!
~Caramell Seduction



SMOOCHIES***

SENDING PICS. OF ANOTHER WOMEN. REALLY?!!!! UPDATED

Ok, so I was on my way to bed but wanted to check my  Sugary Email Acount.
Why did I just get 7 pictures from a POT. with a women in a bikini...on vaction. Why?
I ask you again why? I think it maybe his wife. At least I hope it's his wife...lol


She was out of shape and flabby. She looked old.


If your going to send a POT. S.B. pictures leave the chicks out. Why do I need to see this. Im a far cry of a jealous person but I think its about respect! Am I right?
This makes whatever chemistry there is very  hard to grow.


What am I supposed to say to these pictures?
Personally, I dont understand the purpose of sending me these pictures. I mean should I send pictures of me in Flordia with my ex.? lol
I dont think that would go over to well.



I was thinking about saying:
 O..your wife is pretty...haha
or who is this or maybe nothing at all...haha


What do you think?




Just wanted to post this quickly...

Update:
He said that she was his date from last night. lol
He just wanted to show me how beautiful Flordia is..lol

I told him sorry I thought she was your wife.

He said why are you sorry. No she's not my wife Ive been divorced for over 10 years now.

I said I was sorry because I thought she was your wife and also for the divorce.

I haven't heard from him since...haha

O well!


Laugh at Life!
~CaramellSeduction


SMOOCHIES***

My Sister Turning Down R.L. POTS....HUH?

My sister and aunt went to sign their lease on an office space that they are sharing. We go to the owners office (which is the whole top floor) and a young girl answers the door. She wouldnt even let us in...she said he was down stairs.


My sister says that he's her S.D.
I said no shes his daughter. She says no thats he S.B.


Long story short...he tells us in so many words that he was tapping this young girl...haha


He was checking me out. So, my sister is now on a mission to make him my S.D...haha


She wasnt a pulled together polsihed S.B.
But, I can't knock anyones style....she getting that money.


Basically his wife does all the paperwork and the S.B. sits on her ass in the office doing nothing at all...haha


I love it. He 74 years old..haha


But, He is very handsome...He is a big flirt and has swagger..lol


My sister...has R.L. guys offering to be her S.B. all the time and she turns them down..
I think it's so funny because she says she doesn't want to be a S.B. but she wants the money...


I think she will be one soon.


Her B.F. doesn't make enough for her shopping addiction...haha


Today was a sucky day!!!

• I had to search for my high school diploma...went in the storage area at my mom's and couldn't find it....ughhh
• Dropped my pretty banana (right after I peeled it)...it just fell on the floor
• Had to get TB test...Im scaried of needles..it hurt   :(
• Spent way to much money these week
• Just eating for the first time 10:47pm...so I was cranky
• My sister and I alway...ALWAYS...I mean always argue...so we were arguing (again) all day today.
• I went shopping for nude open toe pumps.........I got everything but nude pumps.
• I got in an argument with my B.F...........But he gave me money so I don't care... I took the $$$ and drove off...haha (thank you!!!)
• On my way home from leaving him.....I caughter a flat....down the road from my house. So I rode the flat to my house.
• cost of new tire $250+ tax+labor ....for one freakin' tire...Im beyound pissed!  But, Im happy that it hapened once I got off the highway and I was able to make it home safely.

Im happy the day is over...All I want to do tomorrow is sleep. I dont have to start my new job until monday. So, Im resting. Ill have triple A come out and change my tire to my spare so I can buy a new one.


Thanks for listening to me bitch about my sucky day :)




SMOOCHIES***


I put a quote & picture later....sorry felines Im tires...I mean tired lol

AWWWWW. POOR GUY... LITERALLY!

Damn this is a great picture!

I was on A.M. responding to some emails and came across this really sweet guy. He was willing to pay me for the first date without me having to ask for it.


 But, from his picture I knew he wasn't going to be able to afford my allowance.


Awwwwwww. the poor guy sent me this respectful email discussing the allowance. Of course I posted it below for educational purposes.


I kind of feel bad for posting this in my blog because he is a sweet heart. 


But, every encounter is a learning lesson for a Feline.


So here we go:




Me:
I prefer to discuss arrangements before meetings.... learning experience. It saves time and money.


Him:
Thats smart Although I was going to give you a monetary gift just for meeting me 


Me:
      Have you been a S.D. before? I've been down the road of having chemistry and then getting really excited about the possibility of finally getting my S.D. to only hear that the allowance request (discussed in advance) isn't compatible. They don't even offer gas $...only so it's really a frustrating thing looking for a S.D. So, thank you for understanding :) How is your day? What do you do for a living?


Him:
I totally understand.... Im a private investor and obtained several new clients through referals so my free time just got extremly limited (yea for my bank accounts...boo for my love life!) LoL I do some travel cross country and do a lot of reading in the air. I have a extreme interest in relationships, (psychology) and of course the female body LoL! Depending on my mind I can be "particular" so as to not waste your time Im giving you at least 70 whenever we deceide to meet and then we can (maybe) go from there.... btw I had a "easy" day (thank you so much for asking!!!) How was your day? I trust you enjoyed this gorgeous weather, "goreous!"


Me:
Heres one of my fav online clothing stores that you can choose from (if we hit it off) www.venus.com 


Him:
      L.O.L. Thanks funny thats one of my favorite sites also. I wasn't able to enjoy the weather today...I had reports and school :(     Your job sounds fun....but maybe a bit lonely. Im happy you had a good and easy day to day :)




*** This is where it gets good :)****




Him:
Well, if we "like" each other this is what I was thinking.... To start off with I would give you a pre-paid debit card of 200.00 per month After every "encounter" I would give you a "gratuity" of 100.00 After 6 months (if we are still happening) I would increase your allowance to 300.00 per month with a gratutiy of 150.00 following a 'encounter" Stamina is key for me.....I love to give more than receive and the ability to receive pleasure is a MUST. (I have no problems with all-nighters....) I hope this is something that would be agreeable to you and not a insult....


Me:
I love that you put thought into it....and that you don't want to offend me. But our numbers are really far apart. I wish to recieve an allowance of $2500 a mth. (this was my starter allowance with my last S.D.) Im willing to negotiate. I hope I haven't offended you. 


Him:
      Well my love....In my experience Ive found that if I begin with too large of a amount the relationship begins to sour in the way of being taken for granted and other things....so this is where we might part ways...CaramellSeduction you are a treasure and I hope that you will find the *One* your heart truly seeks.....


Me:
Awwwwww. I was looking forward to meeting you :( I don't think that your past experiences we're with true S.B. the reason I say this is because the foundation of a Sugar Babe relationship is being "MUTUALLY BENEFICAL." Both parties must recieve what they seek or there is no point of being together. Every real S.B. knows this. In order to remain happy myself I must keep my Daddie happy as well. Im sorry that you had a negative experience. I wish you all the best in your search and in life :)




Did he really think that a real S.B. would go all night for the allowances that he was offering?


I couldn't help but chuckle when I read it....


But, it was different this time...I knew it wasn't coming from a negative place....it was coming from truly wanting to seek a connection with someone but not being able to afford it.


That makes me a little sad :(


But, I am not here to put my PEACH on the line because some nice guy can't afford her. 


I hope that I don't sound mean...haha


You have to know what you want! 
Know what you will negotiate to
And know what you won't except!


If anyone want him let me know. He's a really nice guy.


With that being said I have a few new great Pots. but I won't get to excited...we know how that goes (eye roll)


*A lot of money is different for everybody*
So, don't be afraid to ask what a lot of money is to them!




4 guys from S.A. and a few follow up guys from A.M.


I will of course keep you Felines posted about my adventures :)


This is the new addition of what my dad said about this poor guy :(

Haha...
I told my dad the story and told him that the guy was really nice and I felt sorry for the guy.

My dad said " all broke people are nice..they have no choice, they have no money..their broke! Stop feelin' sorry for people" haha

He cracks me up! He is too bult for his own good. But he keeps me on my toes...lol

Every real Sugar Babie knows that you have to treat your Daddie like the man he is and he will spoil you better then he spoils his own damn family!  haha


~ Caramelllseduction

Just Call Me Anna Nicole Smith! I'll answer...lol

Me and My new Papi or grand-Papi...lol

Hey Felines!


I have great news!!!!!!!!!!!!
 I landed a DADDIE....YEAH ME :)

He is someone I met on A.M. about a year ago. He's never in town and our schedules would never mesh well.

So, this is one of the dates that I was looking forward to seeing (the one who had a gift for me)...I wrote a post a while back (not to long ago but felt like a lifetime)


So, he is a C.E.O. of a large manufacturing company. He has some of the prettiest blue eyes I ever seen.

He's 6'0 and I enjoyed looking at how he wears a suite..with a splash of color in his tie & socks.

*That's a great sign that he likes to have fun but he's serious in the board room*


Felines I have went on dates before but never with someone with the years of experience he has (his age) ...lol

I'll keep you waiting to tell you how old he is...lol

He drives a BLACK BIG BODY BENZ....the reason that is important to me is because his car matches his status and that means he is serious about how he conducts his business.

 I have went on dates with POTS. who drives the  "family car"  or their Luxury is on the same level as my Luxury and I'm in my 20's.......there is nothing wrong with not wasting your money but you may not be the Daddie for me.

To cautious with your money means to cautious with my allowance and gifts!

I don't have time for that!

 I want a Daddie to show me the ropes in business and teach me how to navigate threw life...while sprinkling me with the rewards that his hard work has to offer..while I take away the stress of his tired. boring. predictable life....lol


I need someone who loves when people stare at him...the women want to be with him and the men want to be him because he's with me & he knows that I am that cause for all the stares and it turns him on...boost up his ego!

YUMMY!!!!


 I think that a car a man chooses can say a lot about him. He is a very classy guy and that's why it was like waiting for christmas to come when I was a kid..It felt like forever!

 But we finally met and he didn't disappoint.

Didn't I tell you Felines that once I got a job that I would probably get a S.D....It just always seems to workout that way.

Of course my search isn't over! I still need a few more great possibles to make my summer fantastic!

The problem is that the "Dream Job" doesn't allow for me to take a vaction for a year....                 :(

A whole year!

 I have been self-employeed basically my whole life and taking vacations when and where I wanted and now to have to wait a whole year .....sucks!

So, I guess Sugar will end up rolling into my personal life..because I'll be Damn if I don't take at least a weekend trip! Sorry B.F....

He will be pissed but he'll get over it! lol

O, and that gift he promised me....

He gave me a nice gift of crispy one hundred dollar bills .....in an envelope.

When he comes back our arrangement will began....April 5, 2012...Im pretty excited!

It's far away again....I'm a little nervous becasue I haven't been involved with anyone other then my B.F. since my last S.D.

Do you want to say CaramellSeduction shut up already and tell us his age! lol

OK.OK.OK.OK.OK....

He is 63 years old....

I have never been interested in a man of that age before because frankly I don't think any have been interested in me...lol

Just go ahead and call me Anna  Nicole Smith ...HAHA

Hell Yeah, I find him attractive ....with his clothing on..I haven't seen them off yet

 but going through your mental rolodex will help with that...lol

I will of course blog in full honesty about what our first time was like.

What it was like having sex with a man of his age and the yummy details and the not so yummy details...lol

Finally, a man who knows quality when he sees it...and once I give it to him and put it down on him...I'm going to ask for a raise in my allowance.

That was a little trick I used with my last S.D....
I waited until he couldn't survive without my Sugary Sweetness and then BAMM I asked for a raise...lol

So, I start my job next Friday and I will continue to follow-up with the dates that I have scheduled.


I know this journey is hell on wheels sometimes....

My Felines don't give up and don't give in!
 Don't settle for nothing less then what you request!
You deserve 100% of the best!

lol.. I know that it is a tedous battle of going on dates and looking drop dead gorgeous and trying to impress someone...but YOU CAN DO IT!

Ya'll have watched my struggled and this is a nice little pit stop for me..to catch my breath a little..lol

But then I'll be right back in the game.

I'm excited to see where this goes but I am not counting nothing until the money is sitting in my glove box waiting to be deposited into my bank account!



I'll give him a name later...I want it to fit his personality or something along those lines...so that will  be continued!!




Don't spend no money in your head....... until it's in your hand!!
    ~ Caramell Seduction

       SMOOCHIES***

I GOT THE JOB FELINES!!!!!!!

                                 NOW ALL I NEED IS THE SUGAR :)

O.k., So I think I mentioned that I was going to start looking for a job in the field I have my degree in since my Sugary Adventures aren't panning out the way I would like.


  I have been going on interviews..left and right and even went on interviews that had nothing to do with a degree but was geared more towards a Sugary pay out...hosting at top restaurants. 


But either the pay sucked or someone else filled the position.


Well, today I went on an interview and was offered the position right then and there! 
I'm so happy!! I need the money.


 I have had an administrative position in my field with the business licensing being in my name and I resigned because the business was out of compliance and I worked to hard to loose my license for someone else's business. 


Well, this position is the administrator's assistant. I will be doing the same job as before without all the stress and responsibility + I will be able to get off at 6:00pm. 


When I had the other position I was on salary so I was never officially off duty.


I was looking at my boss like you will be a great Daddie...lol
I saw him peeping me...checking out my ASSets....lol 
I have never really worked with a lot of men before and this position has a lot of men.


 I don't mean regular men...I mean G.Q. fine ASS men...DAMN..I can't wait to start working...lol


It's Downtown and it's near my college.. ...with free parking ...so you know in the summer I'll have my little  ass using the corporate district as my personal catwalk...lol


My B.F. used to get jealous when I had cute but not legal interns working for me at the place I resigned from ....I'll have to make sure he never comes to the job.....or his little chest will be fully inflated....lol


It's 4 investors who have offices in the building and ....I hope I leave a lasting and professional impression...so that they can want to invest in me...one way or another..........


 (can you say Sugar Bowl felines...haha).........lol


I wouldn't mind Sugaring My Way To The Top! Women Do It All The Time In The Corporate World..lol. So why not me too?


Why was one of my interview questions "so what do you like to do for fun?"


My dumb ass said "O you mean besides blogging?!" and fell out laughing...


Of course the guy interviewing me look puzzled but it was an inside joke for me and my Felines. ;)


He said "You have a blog? What is it about?"
I responded quickly "O, no I just love to read them and write my thoughts..it's so therapeutic"...lol


So, I'm thinking next week I will follow up with any and all POTS that I have computer chemistry with and then maybe start free-styling...if none of those POTS don't workout in person.


I just thought of something....
I always have the best of luck finding POTS. that will pay up when I don't need the money.
So...cheers to having a job and not need the money so badly.






I hope all is improving in the Bowl...because we babies need some great new :)






        People who enjoy what they are doing invariably


 do it well.

            ~Joe Gibbs








                       SMOOCHIES****