Just Call Me Anna Nicole Smith! I'll answer...lol

Me and My new Papi or grand-Papi...lol

Hey Felines!


I have great news!!!!!!!!!!!!
 I landed a DADDIE....YEAH ME :)

He is someone I met on A.M. about a year ago. He's never in town and our schedules would never mesh well.

So, this is one of the dates that I was looking forward to seeing (the one who had a gift for me)...I wrote a post a while back (not to long ago but felt like a lifetime)


So, he is a C.E.O. of a large manufacturing company. He has some of the prettiest blue eyes I ever seen.

He's 6'0 and I enjoyed looking at how he wears a suite..with a splash of color in his tie & socks.

*That's a great sign that he likes to have fun but he's serious in the board room*


Felines I have went on dates before but never with someone with the years of experience he has (his age) ...lol

I'll keep you waiting to tell you how old he is...lol

He drives a BLACK BIG BODY BENZ....the reason that is important to me is because his car matches his status and that means he is serious about how he conducts his business.

 I have went on dates with POTS. who drives the  "family car"  or their Luxury is on the same level as my Luxury and I'm in my 20's.......there is nothing wrong with not wasting your money but you may not be the Daddie for me.

To cautious with your money means to cautious with my allowance and gifts!

I don't have time for that!

 I want a Daddie to show me the ropes in business and teach me how to navigate threw life...while sprinkling me with the rewards that his hard work has to offer..while I take away the stress of his tired. boring. predictable life....lol


I need someone who loves when people stare at him...the women want to be with him and the men want to be him because he's with me & he knows that I am that cause for all the stares and it turns him on...boost up his ego!

YUMMY!!!!


 I think that a car a man chooses can say a lot about him. He is a very classy guy and that's why it was like waiting for christmas to come when I was a kid..It felt like forever!

 But we finally met and he didn't disappoint.

Didn't I tell you Felines that once I got a job that I would probably get a S.D....It just always seems to workout that way.

Of course my search isn't over! I still need a few more great possibles to make my summer fantastic!

The problem is that the "Dream Job" doesn't allow for me to take a vaction for a year....                 :(

A whole year!

 I have been self-employeed basically my whole life and taking vacations when and where I wanted and now to have to wait a whole year .....sucks!

So, I guess Sugar will end up rolling into my personal life..because I'll be Damn if I don't take at least a weekend trip! Sorry B.F....

He will be pissed but he'll get over it! lol

O, and that gift he promised me....

He gave me a nice gift of crispy one hundred dollar bills .....in an envelope.

When he comes back our arrangement will began....April 5, 2012...Im pretty excited!

It's far away again....I'm a little nervous becasue I haven't been involved with anyone other then my B.F. since my last S.D.

Do you want to say CaramellSeduction shut up already and tell us his age! lol

OK.OK.OK.OK.OK....

He is 63 years old....

I have never been interested in a man of that age before because frankly I don't think any have been interested in me...lol

Just go ahead and call me Anna  Nicole Smith ...HAHA

Hell Yeah, I find him attractive ....with his clothing on..I haven't seen them off yet

 but going through your mental rolodex will help with that...lol

I will of course blog in full honesty about what our first time was like.

What it was like having sex with a man of his age and the yummy details and the not so yummy details...lol

Finally, a man who knows quality when he sees it...and once I give it to him and put it down on him...I'm going to ask for a raise in my allowance.

That was a little trick I used with my last S.D....
I waited until he couldn't survive without my Sugary Sweetness and then BAMM I asked for a raise...lol

So, I start my job next Friday and I will continue to follow-up with the dates that I have scheduled.


I know this journey is hell on wheels sometimes....

My Felines don't give up and don't give in!
 Don't settle for nothing less then what you request!
You deserve 100% of the best!

lol.. I know that it is a tedous battle of going on dates and looking drop dead gorgeous and trying to impress someone...but YOU CAN DO IT!

Ya'll have watched my struggled and this is a nice little pit stop for me..to catch my breath a little..lol

But then I'll be right back in the game.

I'm excited to see where this goes but I am not counting nothing until the money is sitting in my glove box waiting to be deposited into my bank account!



I'll give him a name later...I want it to fit his personality or something along those lines...so that will  be continued!!




Don't spend no money in your head....... until it's in your hand!!
    ~ Caramell Seduction

       SMOOCHIES***

I GOT THE JOB FELINES!!!!!!!

                                 NOW ALL I NEED IS THE SUGAR :)

O.k., So I think I mentioned that I was going to start looking for a job in the field I have my degree in since my Sugary Adventures aren't panning out the way I would like.


  I have been going on interviews..left and right and even went on interviews that had nothing to do with a degree but was geared more towards a Sugary pay out...hosting at top restaurants. 


But either the pay sucked or someone else filled the position.


Well, today I went on an interview and was offered the position right then and there! 
I'm so happy!! I need the money.


 I have had an administrative position in my field with the business licensing being in my name and I resigned because the business was out of compliance and I worked to hard to loose my license for someone else's business. 


Well, this position is the administrator's assistant. I will be doing the same job as before without all the stress and responsibility + I will be able to get off at 6:00pm. 


When I had the other position I was on salary so I was never officially off duty.


I was looking at my boss like you will be a great Daddie...lol
I saw him peeping me...checking out my ASSets....lol 
I have never really worked with a lot of men before and this position has a lot of men.


 I don't mean regular men...I mean G.Q. fine ASS men...DAMN..I can't wait to start working...lol


It's Downtown and it's near my college.. ...with free parking ...so you know in the summer I'll have my little  ass using the corporate district as my personal catwalk...lol


My B.F. used to get jealous when I had cute but not legal interns working for me at the place I resigned from ....I'll have to make sure he never comes to the job.....or his little chest will be fully inflated....lol


It's 4 investors who have offices in the building and ....I hope I leave a lasting and professional impression...so that they can want to invest in me...one way or another..........


 (can you say Sugar Bowl felines...haha).........lol


I wouldn't mind Sugaring My Way To The Top! Women Do It All The Time In The Corporate World..lol. So why not me too?


Why was one of my interview questions "so what do you like to do for fun?"


My dumb ass said "O you mean besides blogging?!" and fell out laughing...


Of course the guy interviewing me look puzzled but it was an inside joke for me and my Felines. ;)


He said "You have a blog? What is it about?"
I responded quickly "O, no I just love to read them and write my thoughts..it's so therapeutic"...lol


So, I'm thinking next week I will follow up with any and all POTS that I have computer chemistry with and then maybe start free-styling...if none of those POTS don't workout in person.


I just thought of something....
I always have the best of luck finding POTS. that will pay up when I don't need the money.
So...cheers to having a job and not need the money so badly.






I hope all is improving in the Bowl...because we babies need some great new :)






        People who enjoy what they are doing invariably


 do it well.

            ~Joe Gibbs








                       SMOOCHIES****

A.M. SHOULD STAND FOR "Arrogant Men"...Can You Believe him?

Like Dude Why Are You So Full Of Yourself?? Your Not All Of That!

I hate men from A.M. they are so full of themselves..

Like really..you contacted me! I didn't contact you ..I didn't even know that you existed! haha

This guy doesn't even have a "POT name" because I don't know how to reply to the email.

My B.F. put me in a shitty mood and so I dont want to take it out on this poor  pompous sap..lol

So the reason I'm posting this post is for a graceful way to reply to his arrogant email.

The emails are of course below for your viewing and laughing pleasure...HAHAHA

him:

What's up? So what type of amounts are you talking about I mean with what figures are you looking at?

Me:
Typos are excused if you excuse mine

$2500 mthly

him:

Whew! I've never even thought about the sugar daddy thing but I was like damn shes fine. But that's a little steep for my blood. I don't mind taking care of a chick but thats cra. I did not realize people was getting like that lol. Anyway yeah you right having this talk upfront was best haha. Damn you're fine though so I can be here for friendship or mentorship. I'm a pretty successful guy at a young age so I can point you right direction lol.

Sent from my iPhone, please excuse typos.

Me:

Thank you for the compliment. With my last S.D. that was my starter allowance...when the relationship ended it was much higher.
Thank you for being honest and upfront. I think having this talk saves a lot of time and money in the long run. It's not the most romantic conversation to have..lol but it keeps everything real and honest.
What do you do? Tell me about yourself? What type of allowance we're you thinking?

him:

I'm an engineer by day but I'm actually about to graduate from law school as well. Yeah, I'm sure it went up, he has to keep you on the team. About me I'm 6'3 190 34 years old. How old was your SD? I guess seeing that I have money, credit, good job, nice car, pretty good looking, I can't find myself paying that type of loot. I mean I could go out hang pick up chicks but I'd rather just have one bad (as in good looking) chick, like yourself on the side. In pretty much down for anything and I'm pretty cool to kick it with. Was actually looking forward to that first date! No never been an SD So I had no idea. I was thinking shopping trips, travel, gifts, dinners, jewelry, stuff like that. Im a big time shopper so i hit nyc, chicago, la. Into high fashion so i rock a lot of designer the Gucci Prada and Louis Vuitton you know but also rock regular clothes as well. Had no idea that you had to make monthly payments like it was a Bill or a mortgage LOL. So what do u like to do for fun? Do you travel? Do you date other guys or just your SD?

Sent from my iPhone, please excuse typos.

Ok, so this last email is where the problem is. I haven't responded and I believe he sent it last week. How do you Felines think that I should reply? Isn't he arrogant?

Men kill me thinking they can pull every women. eyeroll...I'm sure in R.L. I would advoid him like the fuckin' plague! Not because of looks (he not all that...either!) but because of how arrogant he is.

Like ok get over your fuckin' corny ass self already.

Isn't he a little to old to be talking like a rapper Kanye West "Cra" refrence...that is corny as hell! HAHA

Why in the fuck would I need another friend? Would you really try to be just my friend when you clearly want to fuck me? I don't believe in "friends with benefits" so if he was to be my friend he would get absolutely NO PEACHES!

 It wouldn't be a mutually benefical relationship..at all. Unless he thinks that mutual means he hits on me and mentor me...and in return gets to look at me...then ok, I have guy friends like that too....lol


I know some Felines have had success with young Pots/S.D. but I seem to get the arrogant ones.

I wouldn't mind going shopping and I guess that is the "new thing"  in the Sugar Bowl shopping only ...like I couldn't go shopping with my allowance if I wanted to...

Yeah he wants a "bad ass chick" on his arm like me to make him look like he has it all together and he's a complete package for some Gucci shoes...

Am I too picky? Should I meet the dooch bag in person and see if I like him then?

I need advice...Thank you in advance.

Is having a S.D. kind of like having a boyfriend???

I mean when you already have one the other ones start to come out of the wood work trying to be your Daddie?

So, if I just get an ok Daddie would my Dream Daddie come?

Will I have that Sugary Glow...when I finally get another Daddie?


Do you think I'm to picky?



HAVING ME ON  YOUR ARM UPGRADING YOUR STATUS...WHILE YOU THROW SCRAPES AT ME. I think not!
       ~Caramell Seduction


SMOOCHIES***

Do you live in CALI?

How many of my Felines live in Cali? I have recieved tons of action from men in Cali. so Im just wondering ...incase I pursue coming there for a visit.

Smoochies***

A to the B ... 1 of my Sugar Bowl Friends

Don't they look like they give each other the best advice?

This started out as a response to her post on her blog but it was to long that they wouldn't let me send it once I typed it all out...so ya'll know me I made it into a post and hopefully it can help all my Felines :) I hope you don't mind A to the B... 


A to the B,

Where do I start?......lol

You aren't cheating on anyone of them!

 You have to separate that in your head. Ted may feel like a boyfriend but he's not! He's your POT./SUGAR DADDIE.

 He has another life outside of you and you should to. 

At, first I was going to say to you that it is good that you two have this chemistry and passion growing between you because that makes some of the best arrangements in my opinion...it doesn't feel like an arrangement but more of a friendship and a boyfriend.

But, the more I kept reading the more I saw your dilemma .

Girl, your going to fall in-love with this man and get hurt because your too close already.

I think that you have to ask about your allowance now because that will put things in prospective and define what you have.

Read my recent post "talking to my dad about the bowl". I sometimes make that mistake when meeting POTS. but I feel it would be different if I was to travel across country to see a POT.

I don't want you to get to America and find out that he never had intentions to give you allowance but to just sleep with you.

You would be crushed!

Please note that him giving you his credit card number and paying for expenses is because I believe that he is serious and likes you...but with that being said I believe that he should pay for ALL cost occurred because he's asking you to leave the safety of your country and that should be a given.

If your afraid to ask for allowance then you should get practice in with a bunch of POTS. before hand. This will help get your courage up.

In the Bowl it's good to have more then 1 POT. because you never know when it may end. Plus, you have to cover you ass.

In this economy right now one of your S.D.s may loose their job or business may close and their you are being screwed because then he wouldn't be able to keep up the cost of having a women on the side, he would have to take care of his family or long term relationship first.

I think especially in your situation you should have 2 S.D. because Ted doesn't live in your country. So you wouldn't see him as often as someone who does.

You can't leave a for sure thing for a maybe thing that hasn't been discussed yet.

I'm sorry..but why do you care if he disappointed in you?

 You owe him nothing but what you choose to give him. You are clearly a good person it doesn't make you a bad person if you have more then 1 S.D.!

How would he find out? He's not even there...lol

I understand about the roller coaster your referring to in this Bowl and it can be draining.

You can't let it get you down.

Keep you distance...

That is what so good about being in the Bowl..... you don't have to be afraid to tell your Daddie that your behind on your rent.

 You don't want to get put out on the street because your scared to ask your S.D. for the money...I mean he's on a SUGAR DADDIE DATING SITE..he knows why your there.

If he cares about you he will charge it to his credit card or wire it to you today :)

If he's trying to be "exclusive" and wants you to be exclusively his... then you shouldn't have to want for anything..ever!

If it was me I would go on that date with MR.Q. ..you never know you might have a ball and be happy you went and have a back up if your FL. trip sucks.  :)

And set up Sugar Babie safety steps before travelling to the States!!!!!!!!!

These suggestions are a combination of my own and my Feline Butterfly Sugar (HEY GIRL!)

1.Like reach out to a S.B. or R.L. friends or both to either meet you there on your trip or call you to check in with...so we know your still alive and having fun.

2.Options to be able to leave if your not comfortable (a girl must have options).

3.Discuss where you'll be staying before hand and stick to it!

4.How long will you be visiting?

5.Will you have a car to get around in?

6.Locate the U.S. Embassy and Consulate

www.usembassy.gov/  (this is their official website)

before your trip here..So you know where to go if your in trouble.

Know the telephone numbers and location..please!!!

7. make a folder either on your P.C. or in person and put all emails conversations as well as text messages between you, his picture, his address, his credit card number,his full name, and any other info you have on him in this folder. Tell someone you trust were to look for it if something happens to you and who to give it to.
8. Stay in regular contact with more then one person and make sure that he knows it!
He needs to know that your loved and people will come looking for you if you don't return home safely with not one hair out of place.
*Make sure that your check-in people are reliable and don't suck like my little sister who always forgets to call me when I'm  on dates with POTS...damn that is so annoying..lol

9. Set-up other dates to meet POTS. in Florida. That way you can have another back up if it doesn't workout with Ted. No need to come all this way to be upset if he pisses you off..lol 

I want you to be as safe as you possibly can.. I'm not trying to be your mom but I don't want you to feel scared in a country that you don't know.

My final advice to you is this.

**Follow your first mind/ your gut...if it's not right get out of there!

You don't have to sleep with him just because he flown you to the States..you owe him nothing.

If you need me to keep in contact with you while your in the states I will be more then happy to :)

I hope I helped and sorry it's so long.

Thank you for sharing....I hope I wasn't being to harsh...I just wanted to be honest so you don't get hurt.

HAVE FUN!!!

Don't leave a for sure thing for a I don't know thing!

                      ~Caramell Seduction

SMOOCHIES****

Talking 2 My Dad About The Bowl...

Men give really good advice when it comes to relationship...just ask any man you love or respect!

So, I talked to my father about my Sugary Adventures of last week. I have never really told him that I go on these dates like I do and I darn sure didn't tell him that I meet these POTS. online...he is extremely over protective and when I was younger extremely strict..

But, now that I'm an adult we are best friends...I'm a Daddy's Girl! My boyfriend says I'm a Mommy's Girl. So, I guess I just love my parents :)


I live in a nice neighborhood...so he thinks I'm meeting them while driving or jogging, or shopping, shit I don't know...lol
and who am I to change my Daddy's views of how I meet successful men...haha


So, I was venting to my Dad about the V.P. who I wrote about in my last post. I told him I don't understand how come I'm no longer closing the deal with these POTS.
I mean not to long ago I was having POTS. giving me my allowance in full on the first date with little conversation and now I'm in  a drought!

He said " You are to friendly and so they think that they can get over on you."
He also said "when you sit down you need to start talking about the reason you are there in the first place and then let things flow to see if there is chemistry."

"Ok", I said that makes sense to me.

 I always take he is advice because 1. he has a lot of women young and old...he takes care of his women (Should I dare call him a S.D....I would just say he's old fashion and believes a man should take care of his women. Actually all the men in my family is that way.) and 2. he pays attention to his surroundings. 3. women either propose to him or give him keys to their house within 2 weeks...

So, from here on out I'm going to ask my POTS. as soon as I sit down "what's the deal with my NNNNs (money).....lol

My Dad say if they don't have the gas they promise or the allowance there or talking about giving it up soon then get up and walk out because ..."he's trying to see what he can get for free or see how much he can talk you down" he said.

So, I'll let you Felines know how this works for me.
You know I am on my last engines of this Sugary Hunt because I am feeling the burn out.

 Multiple dates back to back starts to wear you out...and all I'm doing is eating steak and chatting...can you imagine if I was R.E.C.ing (sex)  to?

I may take a break and take down my profiles and then come back...this is if I have anymore dates that continue to suck the way they have been.

Sometimes I feel like we're to close to the situation to really give it a great judge of character...so stepping back for a while and then coming back with fresh eyes is better.

No promises to that because I am a little addicted to the Bowl...lol

Get the money first... Get the money first! It's no different then in Cosmetology...Get the money FIRST!
                      ~My Dad

                               Smoochies***

FUCKIN' CHEAP ASS BALLERS...WELL NOT WITH MY PEACH!

HE'S NOT THIS V.P. BUT HE'S PRETTY BIG!

I am so sick of going on these fuckin' dates with major players in the life arena. They are so fuckin' cheap! I went on a date tonight with a V.P. of a huge well known company. We had a fuckin' ball...aren't ya'll tired of hearing me have a ball with these fuckin' Pots...with no return on my investment? Well, me fuckin' 2!


He took me to a resturant that I've never been to before..I tried food I've never ate before, heard about the beautiful kids and listen to him bitch about the wife...How she shops and shops and spend and spend.

We discuss the allowance again and I tell him $2500 a month. For him to say that he will think about it because he doesn't know...because he's never been a S.D. before.


ARE YOU FUCKIN'  FOR REAL???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


He is a Vice President Of a company that we all know and love.....Boy I wish I could tell ya'll the name because then you would say just like me $2500 isn't shit to you..you piss this shit out for breakfast!


Plus, I'm pissed because he promised me a small allowance after telling him about gas and how I don't think these men are serious.


I DIDN'T GET IT!


So I wasted my premium gas to drive all the way on the other side of town to get an I'll think about it and get back to you!


We talked about fuckin' Tanker Truck before hand and how that was a complete waste of my time...and he said he wouldn't do the same....BULL SHIT!!!!!!!!!

BREATHE GIRL BREATHE....OK...I'M BREATHING AGAIN...

It just pisses me off that.. I will be your escape from your drab life and you think that your wife deserves the royal treatment...
when you say she's fat and out of shape, dresses poorly, doesn't give a fuck about herself anymore...

it cost to look this damn good and it damn sure cost to fuck this juicy peach...lol sorry T.M.I

I'm starting to feel like I made a mistake by leaving my original S.D.
I would hate to have to go back with my tail in between my legs :(

Tell me Felines is the allowance I request to much?

Is there something you say  or do to seal the deal?

That was my starter allowance with my last POT. + GIFTS+TRIPS+GREAT SEX+ANYTHING I WANTED.......


I don't need a self-esteem boost. I don't go on these dates to hear how beautiful I am, How smart I am, How mature I am, How classy I am....yeah yeah blah blah blah....

Thank you but compliments don't pay bills.

I know I am all those thing....and because I am all those things I am a catch in the Bowl and out of it!

SO BE MY FUCKIN' DADDIE ALREADY AND IF YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO BE A DADDIE DON'T RESPOND OR CONTACT ME.....

Damn is that so hard.. If your not a Daddie don't respond to a Sugar Babies ad.


Thanks for listening to me vent...I really needed to :)

I have 2 more dates tomorrow 1 guy from the S.A. sight with allowance specification on his profile of $5-10k....We will see. Cross your fingers he seems nice.

Another Pot who is cheap A.M. of course (he didnt offer me any gas when I bitched about it ) and I don't know why I'm going to meet with him....
He claims he has a gift for me...
            sure don't they all (eye roll..lol).



 This SUGAR BOWL isn't for the faint at heart. It takes alot of time,money, and hard work.
                      ~Caramell Seduction

                         SMOOCHIES***