FUCKIN' CHEAP ASS BALLERS...WELL NOT WITH MY PEACH!

HE'S NOT THIS V.P. BUT HE'S PRETTY BIG!

I am so sick of going on these fuckin' dates with major players in the life arena. They are so fuckin' cheap! I went on a date tonight with a V.P. of a huge well known company. We had a fuckin' ball...aren't ya'll tired of hearing me have a ball with these fuckin' Pots...with no return on my investment? Well, me fuckin' 2!


He took me to a resturant that I've never been to before..I tried food I've never ate before, heard about the beautiful kids and listen to him bitch about the wife...How she shops and shops and spend and spend.

We discuss the allowance again and I tell him $2500 a month. For him to say that he will think about it because he doesn't know...because he's never been a S.D. before.


ARE YOU FUCKIN'  FOR REAL???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


He is a Vice President Of a company that we all know and love.....Boy I wish I could tell ya'll the name because then you would say just like me $2500 isn't shit to you..you piss this shit out for breakfast!


Plus, I'm pissed because he promised me a small allowance after telling him about gas and how I don't think these men are serious.


I DIDN'T GET IT!


So I wasted my premium gas to drive all the way on the other side of town to get an I'll think about it and get back to you!


We talked about fuckin' Tanker Truck before hand and how that was a complete waste of my time...and he said he wouldn't do the same....BULL SHIT!!!!!!!!!

BREATHE GIRL BREATHE....OK...I'M BREATHING AGAIN...

It just pisses me off that.. I will be your escape from your drab life and you think that your wife deserves the royal treatment...
when you say she's fat and out of shape, dresses poorly, doesn't give a fuck about herself anymore...

it cost to look this damn good and it damn sure cost to fuck this juicy peach...lol sorry T.M.I

I'm starting to feel like I made a mistake by leaving my original S.D.
I would hate to have to go back with my tail in between my legs :(

Tell me Felines is the allowance I request to much?

Is there something you say  or do to seal the deal?

That was my starter allowance with my last POT. + GIFTS+TRIPS+GREAT SEX+ANYTHING I WANTED.......


I don't need a self-esteem boost. I don't go on these dates to hear how beautiful I am, How smart I am, How mature I am, How classy I am....yeah yeah blah blah blah....

Thank you but compliments don't pay bills.

I know I am all those thing....and because I am all those things I am a catch in the Bowl and out of it!

SO BE MY FUCKIN' DADDIE ALREADY AND IF YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO BE A DADDIE DON'T RESPOND OR CONTACT ME.....

Damn is that so hard.. If your not a Daddie don't respond to a Sugar Babies ad.


Thanks for listening to me vent...I really needed to :)

I have 2 more dates tomorrow 1 guy from the S.A. sight with allowance specification on his profile of $5-10k....We will see. Cross your fingers he seems nice.

Another Pot who is cheap A.M. of course (he didnt offer me any gas when I bitched about it ) and I don't know why I'm going to meet with him....
He claims he has a gift for me...
            sure don't they all (eye roll..lol).



 This SUGAR BOWL isn't for the faint at heart. It takes alot of time,money, and hard work.
                      ~Caramell Seduction

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HAVE YOU TRIED THIS SITE?

Has any Felines tried this site Richplayground.com?

WHERE DO YOU GO MEET YOUR POTS.?

I'm not trying to sound ungrafteful by any means....but I'm starting to get sick of eating at resturants...lol
If you Felines knew me in real life I am known for being extremely greedy and thanks to GOD and my good genes I gain no weight :)
I think if I look at one more steakhouse I'm going to go nuts! I don't eat seafood either..lol
I'm such a picky eater :)

But, seriously...there has to be other places to meet POTS.  This is an area where I always seem to have problems with...Where to meet POTS.....

I know you ladies are thinking I go on way to many dates to still not have this figured out yet...lol..well, if your not thinking it..I'm thinking it for you!!

I am an over thinker..sometimes this can work in my favor and sometimes this can work against me.....

In the summer it's easy because I meet POTS. in this little cute Mayberry-Modernized looking city that has waterfalls and tons of high end shopping,parks,resturants.... it's absolutely amazing there. A guy in the R.L. introduced me to it a long time ago (the least he could do with all the drama he caused me..lol) and it's been my stomping grounds ever since...I would love to own a house there one day.

But in my beautiful 4 season state it's hard to find good places to meet without running into people I know. I know a lot of people and my parents know a lot of people. Remember being a Sugar Babie discretion is the name of the game and it wouldn't be to attractive to a POT. if everyone knew me by name if they saw me...lol

So Felines tell me where you meet POTS.?

I'll name a few places I've been
1. Hyde Park
2. Red Steakhouse
3. The Mayberry looking city
4. Parking lots (I know)
5. Ritz Carlton
6. Hotel Lobby
7. Hotel Resturants
8. Ice cream place
9. The mall
10. Outside of the coffee shop (I hate the smell of coffee...lol I know)

Do you Felines hae any suggestions...I know it would be hard because you don't know where I live but if you give me random ideas I should be able to build from there.


A girl has to have options
~Aurthor Unknown


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PEOPLE CAN BE EMOTIONALLY UNBALANCED

Please say a prayer for the families of this school :(

I try to keep my post strictly about the Sugar Bowl but sometimes the Real World needs a forum that you can speak out on also.  Today, In Chardon, Ohio an upper class suburab in the local high school a young man opened fire on a group of students in the cafateria. He was arrested. 4 injured 1death so far. This is a sad Monday.

Please take a moment of silence for those kids and their families :(

Please, be careful Babies when in the Sugar Bowl and Out of the Bowl. Although we're no longer in high school it is important to treat everyone with respect and not ostrasize anyone. Bulling first off isn't sex. I try my best to try to make everyone feel welcome who ever they maybe ..in my presence or out....I'm no "Mother Teressa" but somethings just seem like a no brainer to me.
Be good to people..go against the grain..be a leader not a follower...don't be weak and stand by and watch wrong being done to others!

I'm not certain to why the boy opened fire on the school...I'm sure more developments will unfold throughout the week.

This relates to the Sugar Bowl because we deal with emotions in this game. We have to deal with a Daddies emotional attachment to us and we also have to deal with our emotional attachment to our Daddies. I read many Sugary Blogs and Babies fall hard....I been their.
Try to talk to your Daddie about your goals and expiration dates. How will you guys handle the break up. I know talking about how your going to break up doesn't sound sexy but I think it allows for a smooth exit. With my former S.D. he continued to give me my allowance for up to 3 months..we agreed on 6 months..but I cut it short because he thought that all my Sugar would be included with this allowance. I will admit the 1st month it was hard to let go of him...we continued to conduct ourselves with our usual Sugary Activites...but then I couldn't take his emotional rollercoaster not 1 more day and the allowance wasn't worth it anymore!

There were days that I had nightmares about him flipping out on me. He was so involved. We are now "friends."
But, that could have  been something that you see on the news.

Things escalade so fastly...one minute it can be a conversation about moving on and then the next your arguing about how you are sick of each other.

Felines please try to keep your emotions in check... I'm not trying to be anyone's mother..lol
I just don't want to hear about a baby off of S.A./  or anyother site on the news

Can you imagine how the news would sell the whole Sugar Babie thing? Lets be honest everyone one doesn't understand what it means to be a Sugar Babie...I guareente that it wouldn't be a pretty sight.
Would they even focus on who you are as a person or would it be the fact that your on A.M., a sight for married men and women...or S.A. looking for a gentlemen to spoil you?

So, try to take all precautions.
So for getting so dark...but something like this makes you think of how quickly or how things can build up.


People are crazy...period
~ Caramell Seduction

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FREE STYLING...SHOULD I?

So, as a few of you Felines know...I met my former S.D. by free-styling. I wasn't looking for a S.D....I didn't even know about this world...but he was looking for a Babie, and so our 2 1/2 year Sugary Relationship began :)


 My youngest sister boss has the sexiest voice ever. My sister tells me that he doesn't look like his voice...haha. But as you Felines know I don't care about looks. I have been trying to land this man for about 3 years now. We have never saw each other...lol. My sister and I are completely night and day...I'm sweet, lovable, and get along with everybody......my sister on the other hand....well let just say she is the COMPLETE opposite of me. lol
He was married when I first started flirting with him...now he's divorced. He told my sister that he isn't interested in a serious relationship and sex is whats on his mind...I told her to tell him "Money is on mine" lol
So, come to find out my sister has been telling him that we look just a like and act a like... WHAT! That is the farthest thing from the truth..S.M.H.
Once she told him the truth and should him a picture (I didn't care for the picture)  of me..he won't stop bothering her and asked for my number. So, I tell my daddy (biological not sugary) and he say he thinks it's a bad idea because he doesn't want it to effect my sister's job and that most men can't separate their personal life from their professional lives.
After discussing this with my sister she told me that he is a very mood man and when he was going through problems with his former wife he would take it out on the staff :(                DAMN IT!!!!
O.M.G....after all this plotting to get to this man and now I have to turn it down.  But, I'll keep him in my left pocket...lol.  He already told her that he would spoil me to death and I wouldn't have to want for anything....lol


DAMN.....DAMN.....DAMN....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In my Martin Lawrence voice....lol


Next, My local beauty supply store. So, I haven't been in the beauty supply store in sometime now. I went in to get some extra glossy clear lip gloss ($0.99 keeps lip way shiner then the expensive bards and less sticky) and there he was. The owner of the store is in love with  me. SO he says...lol. He has told ever client that comes to the salon I work at. I just ignore him because he sells everything I need and you can't mess up with your hair retailer...lol. He walks outside and says "who's nice car is that?"...I ignored him. He comes up to me and ask me is that my car...I said yes. He ask "can we switch?", I told him "I don't care I know where he works but keep in mind that I need some brakes. "I told him I would bring the car back because I was on my way to go on a date (sugary). I ask him what type of car he has and he tells me a Toyota Camry. I told him O.k. we can switch. We switch keys...We have the same key. I said this is no Camry key. He told me take a look at the car and see if I like it. I go outside and he has a fully loaded BIG BODY with costume everything (I have no BIG BODY)....
I come back in and told him when I grow up I want to drive one of those one day. All the women in the store laughed at me. He said "why do you have to wait until you grow up...you can have that one"...(eye roll). So everyone in the store is waiting to hear my reply. So I said "yeah, thanks it's much better when you buy it yourself don't you think?" and walk out the store.   The worker in the store said "she was thinking girl switch keys with that man...he never lets anyone drive his car."


Now, that was me with money talking...that's how I used to act. No..No..I don't want your money I have my own..lol
 Post recession me   LOL: Ya'll Felines know I will be up there this week...HAHA
He keeps asking what can he do to prove to me he likes me and he's serious....
I have something in mind... How about Keeping Me Daddie! lol
I'm going to start him out slow... I'm going to tell him if he wants me he needs to start courting me. Me still having to pay for products and supplies...isn't sexy. That isn't getting my attention at all. 
Also, I like discretion...I enjoy men who knows how to shit the fuck up! I think more men could get more pu$$y if they kept their mouths closed.  I don't need the whole world knowing that he's my POT. or S.D. 


So, we'll see my mother and older customers have been trying to tell me to date him for years now and I tell them no...
Now, I'm in a much different place now in my life (broke) and he's starting to look yummy to me...haha


Just keep it real Felines...lol Ya'll know I'm crazy :)


So, I will keep you ladies posted on my Potential POTS 
I know that Pots. stands for potential...but these are Potentials to be Potentials..lol


Always leave that door open you never know when you'll have to go through it.
 ~Caramell Seduction


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DATE 2 WITH TANKER TRUCK :)

DATE #1

I went on a quick lunch date with Mr. Tanker Truck. I told you guys about him before..I met him a while back on A.M...we had great chemistry but I stop talking to him because my P.C. caught a virus from one of my shady POTS. ....not him.
So, we went to a chain resturant. I didnt mind because my B.F. was getting off soon and it was on my way to his house (3 exits away). We laughed and ate an extremely quick meal. I gave him my spill about being a broke college student...lol. hE GAVE ME $60.00 for gas. It was appreciated. He said he wasn't comfortable with paying for my company...so I suggested that he put the money on my reloadable gift card, or to load up a money pack and I'lll load it up on my card...he agreed that that felt better to him He emailed me that he really enjoyed our date and would love to go foward. He said that we should go on another date and then maybe get a hotel...
OKKKKAY I said and was ready to roll.


DATE #2

I had a great day. It did't start off that way it sucked but got good and then aggrivating (read last post). I went on a 2nd date with Tanker Truck. We met and had lunch. I was late again W.T.F (It was a cop on the highway and everyone in front of me was going 2 mph) but only by 5 mins. When I got there he was already eating..lol. NICE! lol Who does that?
We have the best time in the world. He always has tears coming down my eyes. I laugh so loud with him and it's because he's not trying to be anyone but hisself...and you got to love that. Right?


We had the whole resturant looking at us. It was soooooo fun. We talked so long 3 hrs. I think. He forgot that he had to take his car to the mechanic in his town by 3pm, he lives at least a hr. away...
Poor Guy ...haha

So we didn't get a chance to finish our conversation about my allowance. He told me to take my time to think about it. I told him that I knew what I wanted and that I  liked genuinely him and I wasn't meeting him and laughing my ass off for nothing, I was being sincer.

But then we got off subject  for only  2 seconds...he looks at his phone and said "Awwww Shit! I got to go!"
...and ran out of there like Cinderella...lol


But, he sent me text messages saying that he really enjoyed our date and look forward to seeing me.
I was hoping that he would have had the allowance with him on this date and we could have got the ball rolling...that's what happens when you meet off of A.M. (eye roll)


He kept saying that he hoped that he could keep up with my allowance requirements. Whatever.
He's in sales...and has been for over 20+ years...Don't try to use those sells tactics on me..lol


I told him I'm sure you'll do just fine and we'll be just fine...lol
He laughed because he likes honest people.

So as I stated before we had a ball on those two dates. I really enjoyed being with him. So I check my G.VOICE and he left text message stating that he enjoyed hisself...he then left me an email saying the samething. The next day this is the email that he sent me...
Don't you Felines love reading my mail.......lol


Hi Baby,


I tried to call and talk with you yesterday after we met and left a msg... is your #***-***-****? Your not getting my text's either. I thoroughly enjoy you. I appoligize for having to take off so quick, but time fly's when we are together ( good sign, but sucks when time is limited). I need to know what type of "help" is needed on your monthly budget. Yes, I want to move forward now, but how you respond will say weather I can go forward.


I hope you understand, as I have another involved in certain aspects of my world.


Regards,

Tanker Truck


ME:
 I would like a monthly allowance of $2500.


Caramelllseduction,


I'm sorry...I can't move on that. If you like to have lunch sometime give me a call...I think your a special young lady.

Regards,
 Tanker Truck




ME:

what did you have in mind?

Tanker Truck:

I'm reluctant to say as we were MILES apart. I'm no veteren of this SD world by no means, but I'm not that far up the food chain, and someone who is... would maybe not flinch. I have done the escort thing two times and you are way above that market place. Your an awesome young lady who is fun to be with, and I'm blessed to have met you, as you truly make the world a better place, and will go very far in life.

Regards,

ME:

I would still like to know. I'm not an escort..by no means and I take personal offense to you saying so. I'm don't need to know market price since I'm not in that field. Hving a sugar relationship is completely different then an escort relationship. WOW! I didnt see this coming.

Tanker Truck:

I'm sorry you took it that way. You made it clear from the beginning you were after an SD (i.e. wanting a two way sugar blvd). As I stated that... yes , I was open to that, and I'm looking for that one special girl that I can treat well and enjoy a few times a month of pleasure, friendship, and to grow that however it may. Maybe my reference of an escort was inappropriate, but I was caught WAY off gaurd by your figure. It certainly was not intended to offend you, and for that I appolligize whole heartedly. In all honesty...I'm very attracted to you already on more than a physical side, and that is what I want. Please dont hate due to my poor choice of wording.

Now, here is the thing. I discussed with him upfront about what I want for my allowance...day 1, he agreed. When we lost touchand  he  reached out to me I retated my allowance and he agreed again. Before our 2nd date I stated my allowance and that's why he said in the email that he hope he can keep up with my allowance.

This M.Fucker pissed me off. I have nothing against escorts. I'm members on some of their blogs. Escorts even state that there is a difference between S.B. and Escorts.

He said that he wouldn't feel right paying for sex but he tells me he had 2 escorts before and Im over market price.

I never responded. Even if he could come up with the $$$$ he broke the chemistry. I never need money that fuckin' bad. Fuckin' POTS from A.M.

So I went right back to my direct approach. If you want to even chat with me you need to tell if you can afford my allowance. What I'm going to adapt to my approach is before I leave out the house for my 1st date I'm going to ask do we agree on my allowance of $2500.

If the POT agrees on the allowance then I will go and see him but if not then there is no reason for us to communicate any farther.

I'm over the "Time Wasters, The Bullshitters, The Picture Collectors, The Gas Wasters, The emailer and Texters, The we'll meet adventually, and The You Can Get Caught On A Date By Your Boyfriend Risk"...lol

I'm not giving up by all means! I'm just going to fat out the fat. What is the "fat" all that I just listed above! haha

This is the other reason why I had a fucked up day Friday! 

KNOW YOUR WORTH & DON'T LET BROKE ASS POTS CONVINCE YOU THAT YOUR NOT WORTH THE ALLOWANCE YOU REQUESTED!


   ~Caramell Seduction

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My Boyfriend And The Sugar Bowl..lol

But my boyfriend chocolate is darker...yummmmy :)

I'll Post pictures and quotes later..Im on my netbook and its aggravating. Im over my B.F. house. I need my PC. I just wanted to get all my weekend thoughts out of my head...

Sorry Felines that my usual quality isnt used in this post:(
Will fix later


I went over my boyfriends house on Thurday after seeing a POT.  I really needed a great RECing session (long hard sex).
I told my boyfriend that I went on an interview...lol
He told me that I look like I went on more like a date then an interview. Then he asked me out of no where "have I been dating?"...lol

I asked him "No,why would you say such a thing?" lol

I dont wear makeup...and I had on make up.  I had on a tight fitted sweater dress with fashion tights..lol
So I told him that I went to interview to be a hostest at a high end steakhouse...lol

My boyfriend has never had a girlfriend that looks anything like me...shit or act anything like me..lol
Not to sound so full of myself but I've seen pictures of his ex's....not even on the cute list (Im not a hater I am quick to say when someone's cute). So sometimes he comes across sounding very insecure or  jealous. He always ask me why do I have to get so dressed up to go to the store. Im not getting dressed up. I take pride in myself.
Plus, when I put on makeup he doesnt even look at me. I know I be lookin good when I have it on...His response to me wearing makeup is that I have natural beauty and I dont need it.
I know its sweet and I actually agree with him on that lol.
I only wear mascara and a little nutural skin tone eyeshadow and clear lip gloss...not foundation,no press powder, or any of those other things (I dont know all the makeup...lol).

It just get aggravating after a while.

 Im often wonder how it will flow once I have another S.D. with this B.F. of mine. I have a free schedule during the day (minus school)  throughout the week. But on weekends Im with him. He knows me so well. I mean how the hell did he know I went on a date?..lol

He knows that I date older men because I was with an older man when I met him...lol
But, I think that if he or someone else sees me on a date I will tell him that Im looking for investors for my business.

I hate lying and as I stated in previous post Im not good at it. So, I try to play out ever scenerio in my head before it plays out so that it will flow out my mouth without me stuttering or me saying huh what you mean...lol
That's my tell...Im not sure if he knows that thou...lol

Sometimes you have to do what you have to do.
~ Caramell Seduction

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