The WATCHER!

Hey Felines! So the watcher is a guy that I met on S.A. nice enough guy. His profile was pretty normal. Once we started to correspond he informs me that he wants to have a M.F.M.(3-some with him me and another man). I'm going to be honest I had to look up  what the hell m.f.m was because I had no clue..lol

Now, maybe being from being from the mid-west can make me a little naive to the "goings on" in other parts of the world. lol I'm sure there are people in the Midwest who indulge in all types on kinky fantasies and fetishes. lol
When I was in high school I heard of guys double banging girls but according to him this would be more evolved. lol
It's completely about the women. It's not about "banging" its actually about worshiping the women like a goddess.
Hmmmmmm....I love to daydream at work. And I'm not going to lie...I was thinking about these men feeding me grapes..haha

So, he told me he would get off on seeing me have sex with another man. He doesn't have to touch me at all...just wants to watch ( not the first time I've been asked this from a pot on S.A.). Too bad my man(B.F.) don't play that! Because we could put on a really good show for his ass...we are so nasty it might make him change his mind about being a watcher....lol (t.m.i. I know! lol sometimes I get carried away :) 

We will see.

 Do you Felines think that Fetishes (that aren't yours) should cost extra in the monthly allowance?


If one is lucky, a solitary fantasy can totally transform one million realities. 
            ~Maya Angelou 


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THE BREEDER !

The breeder caught my eye because he was an ok looking millionaire and I enjoyed reading his profile. It wasn't until I gave him my email address that he informed me of what he was really looking for. Now, some women my have excepted his offer but for me money isn't everything. I mean you have to have some standards and some limits.

We got along great. His emails had me ready to jump on a plane and go meet him. He was a married s.d. I have no problem with that. Sometime I prefer a married one because they know to leave me alone and take the drama home..lol SOME OF THEM AT LEAST...lol

So, he tells me that what he seeks is a young women to have children with. That I would be a kept women and all would be legally binding and our children and myself would never have to worry or want a thing.

NOW, THIS HAD MY ATTENTION  Since I do want children and what women wouldn't want to hear those words, right! Never have to worry about a thing.

So, I asked more questions ( Im sure I drove him nuts...lol) how would this work if your married? Why would you want to do this to your wife? How would you visit us? how often would we see you? *****MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION:

How involved in our children's lives would you be?

His response is why I say that money isn't everything to me.

He says to me " I wouldn't be involved in the children's lives. I don't want to leave my wife (which I already knew..I'm not stupid) and I would never see them. But, you would never have to worry about anything. You and the children would be taken care of even after my death.

I was like thank you for your complete honesty but this is something that I have to digest.

There are to many single mothers out here with children who thought that the dads were going to be stand up guys. Money is only one aspect to raising kids. 

How would I respond to my kids on where their father is and why they never met him?!? 

What would happen if they found out about me having them for a man who never wanted them to begin with...in exchange for $$$$$$

Would they respect me? Probably Not!

I think he didn't want to leave this earth without knowing he had children to pass on his legacy. 

But, I think he's going about it all wrong. If he was involved then I would have took a little longer to think about my answer of NO...lol

Come on now!!!! My Daddy (biological not sugary) didn't raise no damn fool!!!! 

You can always change a will in testament.

  His family could always contest (and I assure you that they will because there is no way anyone would let a 20 something year old mistress keep their family money) so our money (our children) would be caught up in probate court....that could take years.

 SO, now little ol' me struggle with these kids by myself (which I would love unconditionally). HELLLLLLL NO! REALLLLLLLY?

It just doesn't work for me!! As much as it would be nice to have a rich wealthy man's baby....I would rather be the wife (without a prenuptial agreement)  and the mother of his children....now lets think about how much money that is!

People put themselves (especially women) in fucked up predicaments and ask GOD why them. Think before you act people! It's not GOD's fault that you went after something so shallow then to wait for something better that HE could give you.

So, no thanks I'll just wait! ON THE MONEY,THE MAN, & CHILDREN! haha

P.S.

My next post Ill try to post today is about the watcher...lol

Everything that glitters isn't platinum and diamonds!

~ CaramellSeduction

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FANTASIES...A COUPLE?

Have any Felines ever had a sugary couple? By couple I mean married,dating, engaged,committed to each other...you know a couple. The reason I ask this is because  lately I've been receiving emails and even in public been approached by married/dating couples trying to date me or sleep with me. Now in real life I turn this down. My city is extremely to small (not really) to be carrying on like that...l.o.l And since I'm a private person something like this could never work for me in Real Life.
In the sugary world I have been winked and emailed since I first put up my profile by couples.

 I've been having fantasies lately of have a sugar daddie and then his wife finds out and she then wants to have a 3-some to heal her pain.
Are fantasies supposed to remain just that...fantasies?

I have never been with a women. But the idea has entered my mind (I would never admit in R.L.) before of what it would be like to experience a women's  kisses all over (but the sex how does that even work...i.d.k)
But, I've always pushed the thought out of my mind because what would it be like after....lol

Plus, I would be extremely picky... probably worse then any man would be. lol
I wouldn't be seeking perfection but just perfection to me. Yes, to even to kiss or sleep with. I mean why should my standards change just because its a women. Right?

Would a women be drama? Isn't drama free one of the perks of being in a sugary relationship? 
What if they fall in love with me? What if he falls in love with me? Would she be jealous.  Or what if  she falls in love with me? What would do to there relationship. Or worse vice versa!

So, recently I had a couple email me. The s.d. pot was handsome and well spoken. He then told me that him and his wife were seeking a girlfriend. Honestly, I almost deleted the email but I told him that I would hear him out. He then emailed me personally and sent me more pictures. She was beautiful (body included) Both older then me but you guys know I like older men....
Hmmmmmm a women? 
Then she emailed me. She comes across as down to earth and nice. Hmmmm I.D.K. 
Tell me Felines....have you ever thought about being with a women/ opposite sex? How about a couple? Would that make you gay? Or Bi? 
Just wondering your thoughts Felines.

P.S.
I have two other post Im going to try to post today. 1 about a millionaire who wanted me to have his babies...lol
2nd one about a man who wanted to have a 3 some with men with another man..
I love the sugary world. lol

Fantasy mirrors desire. Imagination reshapes it. 
~Mason Cooley


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HEY FELINES!!!! It was still in draft folder wrote months back.

It's all God...I can't take any credit!


SugarBrownUK....Hey Girl!

Thank you for the compliment. I went through a lot of rough times before I got to this point and believe me it is all God!


 It's nice being able to travel and write my own ticket in life.... but it isn't as glamorous as it sounds. I literally live out of a suite case...go to bed at about 7 pm like an old person when I'm away for work..lol
All my co-workers make fun of me...(Im usually one of the youngest there)
...But, I look at it like this: I'm here away from my family and love ones (whatever city I maybe in at the time) to work and  make money/ not to have fun! 


Just stay in school and never let anyone make you feel like you can't reach whatever goal(s) you may have for yourself. If you don't know what you want to do you yet....school is the best place to start even if you don't finish. It will all make sense once you reach your goal/dream like a puzzle fitting together.


P.S...It doesn't matter weather your in university/trade school/local college/or working (because school just isn't your thing)...your doing something that will help form your future...that's all that matters!


For the feline who can't stand working for other people or who finished college and can't find a job..starting your own business maybe the direction you want to take.


Find something your good at that other people think is hard or just cant do or don't want to do (..because their lazy) and make that your nitch! You can create a business out of anything.


Shit!  My last business was a small bakery from my kitchen :) I had a tutoring business :) and everyone knows about my nail salon that the recession wiped away like a hurricane..lol :(
So never give up!


As far as the $ugar. To me it's always been more important that I meet a Daddie/men/b.f. that elevate my mind rather then my body. So, finding out what a Daddie does for a living is just as important as the allowance.
 If you have the right Daddie he can direct you in ways that college could never because he's had so many life experiences. That my Felines is called Priceless!


Sugar doesn't last forever and as nice as it maybe to have that "Pretty Women" Fantasy...it's just that a fantasy..It can happen but that isn't an everyday thing and so we as Babies/Felines have to stay focused on our futures.


I came across so many Felines before I started blogging that was huge inspirations to me. Thanks FELINES!!!
 They offered excellent advice. 


I think that if your always willing to listen then people are willing to teach you what they know (my dad always told me that biological not sugary)


So, I realize that I still suck and haven't been blogging like I promised. But, I took sometime off of work so hopefully I'll be able to blog my little fingers off like the old days!
NOW ON TO THE SUGA:


I'm still with my old Daddie. He's great. Its an amazing thing to have a C.E.O. who is also a business lawyer as your friend. He gives me some of the greatest advice.


I have been spinning every possible Pot. that emails me because of work so I think that I will reach out and meet some of them next week. 


I met a few on my last business trip and it was just ok.


 One poor guy took me to a really nice restaurant. I was really happy to be there since I eat junk all day on my work trips. I was so damn yummy I wanted to date myself (how vain is that lol).


I had on a pencil skirt, a tight fitted tank top, nude (to damn high) pumps, my hair was down with big spiral curls and pinned up on 1-side.
 I was to tired to be on any date and kept looking at my watch because I was up way passed my bedtime( time listed above)..haha
 I could sense him being annoyed so I ended the date early by tell him I had to get up really early (which was the truth 4:30 am) would call he to let him know I made it back to my hotel. He was a very handsome man....nice but he was kind of blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. lol


Guy#2. 
We met right after I got off...well, at least that's what I told him...lol (I'm a little stinker). I flew back to the hotel(in the car not plane) jumped in the shower put my hair in a side braid put on business casual outfit and rushed to meet him at the local "Panera Bread."
He told meand I quote  "I looked beautiful he couldn't believe I was just getting  off after a 12hr. shift."
 I told him "your just being kind".haha If he only knew..lol
We laughed and had a ball. I may see him again when I return in October. He was handsome with a a cool sexy swagger. I saw him towards the end of my trip...so it was only that one time. He isn't married and have no kids. That can be a good thing and a bad thing.
It's always a nice thing to know your not messing with someone else's relationship, right? But, if he's attached that means he has more to loose and won't become clingy or worse a stalker. But, the distance between us will help some with that. 
I.D.K. we will see and of course I will keep you up on the latest gossip.


Go after what you want in life no matter what other's/hater's  say. They are really envious of your ambition and your strive to reach your goals/ just your swagger.


DO YOU!


~ CaramellSeduction




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I'M BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PART 2.....

Hey My Felines! I SUCK! LOL
I owe you Felines an explanation to why I've just up and disappeared and the things that having been going on in my life since my last post. lol
Remember that "Dream Job?" Well, I've been working it! I mean working the shit out of this career. You Felines know I haven't been doing it for long but I go hard!
When Im under contract I work 12- 12 1/2 Hr. work days 7 days a week no off days. All I do is go to work and go to sleep.
I now know what it feels like "being a S.D." living out of a suite case travelling and seeing the country. I also understand more why they seek Babies/Felines....it's a lonely life.
I on the other hand tend to be a very social butterfly and can strike up a conversation with any type of person anywhere. lol. It drives my friends/co-workers nuts. They want me to be more like them...moody bitches but I don't follow anyone..I'm a leader..always have been always will be..lol
It's nice have a group of women who are getting it. We've grown a bound but no one can ever replace my Felines!
I still have my same S.D. that encouraged me to leave my downtown job and go for the career that will lead to home ownership and the business I want. I haven't seen him in a while because he's been out of the country and when he finally comes back I have to leave again for a business trip.
Im on my business trip now..I just got here 2 days ago. I should be in bed right now but I got a nice email from one of my new Felines "SugarBrownUK" left me a post that she love my blog. Thank you girl...you reminded me of how much I love blogging and how much I've missed all of you Felines. So thank you girl!
I want to thank all of my new members for following me, reading my blog, and posting comment. I also like to thank my Felines who haven't given up on me and de-friended (or whatever its called) me...lol
I'm still here and still go on S.A. & A.M.... and have a lot of prospects but I travel way to much to land a S.D.
I have 2 Pots. who are willing to travel here to the city I'm in for work.. just to meet me and go out to dinner...knowing that I can only see them for a hour maybe a hour and a half (I got to get my sleep)...haha
I think it's so sweet. So, once my job calms done (the 1st week is always nuts) then I will give them a  call.
I'm still with my same sexy boyfriend. I love him and he's way supportive with my career but as usual he gets on my last nerves ...SOMETIMES! lol.
 He'll be down to visit me on Friday and can only stay until Sunday night. But, He so sweet he called off of work...If you Felines knew my man you would know that is a big deal. But, Ill be working the entire time he's here. I'm going to try to see if I can get a day off to be with him.


I put my scholarship on hold...I hope I don't loose it. But, I  have no time to take any courses not even 1 online course! Which makes me sad but I have to choose working for right now...@ least until I learn the ropes in my business. Then maybe 1 class here and 1 class there to keep my scholarship open..lol


I truly feel blessed at this point in my life. I love having the opportunity to help myself and my family if need be  (BELIEVE ME THEY CALL FOR THE DUMBEST STUFF..) But being able to id great.


I still want a S.D. to guide me to financial freedom...Show me the "Blue Print!" I like the S.D. that I have and really can't wait to see him.
I was trying to see what I named my S.D. and realized that I haven't given him a name yet. I think Im going to call him Dreamy. If you guys saw him you might not understand...
But once you got to know him you would get it.


FYI: We still haven't F***ED....
He hasn't been pushing the issue..and neither have I.


I LOVE YOU FELINES!
I have to get up extremely early 4:30 am and its past my 6:30 bedtime. Ill add a quote and picture later.


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This is an quick post..

I meant to send when I was on my first business trip...lol...sorry :(


Hey Felines....I miss you so darn much!!!!


I started that job that would be able to help change my life. I am actually in a hotel for work now. I don't understand how POTS do it!!!! I will be on assignment for 18 day living out of a suitcase...so far I have been here for 7 days so far...12 hr. shifts everyday...no off days!


Yes, the money is unrealistic and it get direct deposited into my account the day that my assignment is over. 


But, you know how Felines do! I am search anytime that I am not exhausted.I'm on a search for a POT....lol


I told my dad that it is crazy that I am making S.D. money now....haha


I still have my S.D. but that may end soon because of our travel schedules for work. He is still extremely supportive to the things that I am trying to do with my life. 


But now I am on a new hunt. I am on a mission to get someone who makes way more then me. A Millionaire Daddie would be great!
I am an Independent contractor so I can work when and anywhere in the world. 




So..I'll try to blog before I leave so I can finally meet some Felines in person.

He Had Me In His Car...Ooooo So Wet!

THE INVESTOR! EXACT CAR...YUMMY :)

HEY FELINES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know... I know... I suck! I miss you Sugary Felines!

I hope you all are doing well and getting ready for our hottest season..SUMMER BABIES!

This job sucks the energy and life right out of me.

 So, today something interesting happened to me. I had to ride with "The Investor" one of my many bosses in his 2012 2-dr Jag to get our figer printing done.
The whole company hates the relationship (completely professional) the we have. He is a serious business man...he never smiles...except when I make him..ha

So ,I was casually asking him questions on our drive. He took the long way. He drove so fast that even me "The Speed Racer" was a little scaried. I could tell that he was trying to impress me! He  told me where he lives and let me know which athletes live on his exclusive street (only 5 freakin houses on the whole entire street...not a dead end street mind you) he has a house that sits right on the water.

Was he impressing me? Am I a typical girl?
Yes. & In this case I was a regular girl....haha. His sexy car is hot ( I looked into this car at the auto show) love it! He is very rich..extremely rich...maybe not quite yet wealthy...but shit Im not his accountant..who knows..haha.
That is hot! I understand him. How he takes care of business is really sweet. YUMMY

When Im not my bubblely happy self (which was only once..becasue I do the originals owner work all the time...he lazy as hell) he told me a joke to make me laugh. He said that he couldn't go home knowing that I was so upset. He calls & emails  me all day long (all professional).

What is worse is I'm playing with myself & thinking of him when I'm fucking my "Amazing In Bed boyfriend." What the hell?!!!! He is my boss! He is my married boss! You Felines know that I have a strict rule to not entertaining married men.....unless it's in the Sugar Bowl.

Well, he is cheap when it comes to his business....haha
But, not when it comes to taking care of him. Having a S.B. is a treat to any man!  Please, I do all his finances for the company I work for (He has many) ....I have his back. He knows that he can trust me with secrets and discuss his frustrations about his partners with me. hmmmm discreteion is what we call this in our world, right? lol
I think I would be the perfect S.B. for this man.


He wife is a pretty petite blonde.
I, on the other hand...petite but curvy long off black blonde on tips hair, round big butt (not to big...but juicy none the less...haha). His wife and I may wear the same size but Im more feeled out in clothing.

Have any of you Felines seduced your boss into becoming your S.D.?
Have any Felines ever had an affair with their boss?


Do you Felines think I should make it a little more obivious?
 I want this MAN!
 I may run scaried if he gives me any attention at all...lol.

 But, I have this weird thing where I need to know that I can get everything I want or it will nag at me like food stuck in my teeth...lol

How should I go about letting him know that Im interested?
Keep in mind that he likes things classy! (no wonder he's eyeballing me...haha)

*You Felines know I love to joke...so if your new to my blogger Im really not this bad in person...maybe just half of this...haha


I went on a lunch date (nice mexican resturant) with an older guy who is friends with my parents YES, I SAID PARENTS!
 I wouldn't date him 1. parents friend (mom doesn't care dad would kill him)  2. he is corny as hell..lol
3. blah blah blah..no!
 He is trying to get me to marry him. He doesn't know anything about me except I am in Cos. industry and I am my parents daughter and really great in business and pretty smart (pat on the back...haha). SO NO! @ LEAST NOT FOR NOW..HAHA

My S.D. is out of town still until mid-May :( Im still sad about that one.

I have a date flying in from out of town and I don't want to say more then that for now...I don't want to get excited or jinx it....
We know how these things can turn out...

I may drive to see the POT. that lives 2 hrs. away.

My Birthday is May 13 (Mother's Day) I want to zipline and he lives in the area where it is. So, I want to see him this weekend. I have to drive there anyway for family.

Cross your fingers I need to quit this job soon.
The job that pays more... training is a long process and Im going thru that now...so I need something until then.


Im not going to school for my summer semester...I may end up regreting it..but O, well! lol

O, I eat my lunch with my boyfriend everyday now...it's so great because I gained at least 10-15lbs. (since working at my job) so home cooking is a nice change and my baby can cook.
That started on Monday. So, it's really nice. I try to get some but he is so boring & scary...lol ( we eat in a busy parking lot near his job).


Fast cars are my only vice.
~Michael Bay


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