I DON'T NEED YO JUSTIFY MYSELF 2 YOU!!!

Hey Felines!
I hope everyone's holidays were great. Mine was good. So on to sugary business.
So I was on S.A. and received an email from a very young and handsome guy. I prefer not to sugar date guys in my age bracket. They always want something for nothing! This time was no exception. But, I thought I would roll with it and see how it plays out.
So. As usual he tells me "this is my first time. I really don't want to have to pay for a relationship. I don't need to because I look good and I'm successful. But, your beautiful and your profile caught my attention. I want to be in a relationship and I wouldn't mind taking you to nice restaurants shopping and trips when I get vacation time at work."
Huh! I get that shit from my boyfriend. It is so frustrating being a baby and these guys want something for nothing.
But, like I said earlier I rolled with it. We ailed each other back and forth. I enjoyed his personality that I was able to view. I was booed up this weekend ;) so I wasn't able to respond to his text messages. In this time period he used it to dissect my profile.
So when I returned the text he sent me this morning he say "may I ask you a question"
I said sure. He says "you said you like that I'm loyal. But your profile says that it's ok for a married men to contact you. "
I replied yes it does. There are many different types of sugary relationship. You don't have to have sex to be in a sugar relationship. Most married men just want someone to talk to. You came up with a lot from a profile.
He says "I just do my due diligence."
Lol. I said due diligence. It's listed on my profile. It was there when you contact ME! Lol
This is my thoughts of this situation. I am an adult just like you. Don't question me. I chose to answer one of your questions. But after that. I don't have to explain myself about choices I choose to make about my life. You are a stranger that I only texted for a few days.
Who the hell do you think you are! If I wanted to FUCK your daddy I could and not have to explain shit to you or yo momma!!!!
Ok damn that was a little harsh. Lol
But true!!!
So, I have a few more youngings in my holster. But, I'm share they will pissed me off to. Young guys who think they want to be s.d. Are still way to wet behind the ears. They aren't humble enough for me. They are so full of themselves.
So, my sugary resolution this year is to cut through the fat! If we don't mesh. Goodbye. Fuck negotiating. This is the allowance that I want. The end!
Sent yourself a sugary resolution. I would love to hear it ;)

You owe no one explanations about your life! Wish them the best and sen them on their way! In the bowl or r.l.
~Caramell Seduction

Happy new year!!!!

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Sugar Babie Facebook

Hey Felines!

Ya'll know I'm not into the whole social media thing. I'm a extremely private person and don't like my business plastered all over the web (except for my blog & work stuff :). 
So, I get made fun of for not being into the whole facebook/tweeter/instgram...craze! lol

Which brings me to my question....How many SB/Felines have a  "Sugar Babie Facebook pages? " 
Does any pots. contact you on your page or is it just another place to vent/document  your SB journey?

Thanks Felines

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GET IT TIGHT...GET IT RIGHT!

Travelling for work is the most unhealthy thing in the world! I usually don't gain weight in the winter time..I loss anywhere between 2-10 lbs. every winter. I'm a pretty healthy eater (I always always & only drink water) except when I'm under contract for work. 
Lets make one thing known now...I love my curves! People pay for a body like this! But, I'm gaining only in my hips.. What the hell????lol 

Which is fine but I like to be internationally attractive and appetizing..lol..so I just want to tone up. 

The crazy thing is my scale says that I haven't gained any weight...that I am the exact 115lbs. that I've always been.. my exercise leggings are fitting to big (yucky saggy). IDK???!!!

So, I'm not much for complaining and not going for results. I've been exercising my ass  hips off....WE WANT TO KEEP THE ASS! lol

The women at the gym were  telling me that I didn't need to be at the gym because they wish that they had my shape...but what I tried to explain is that I'm there to maintain my sexy not really trying to get rid of it!

Felines you have no idea how many older women come up to me (daily) and tell me that they used to have my same curves and they wish that they would have exercised. That shit is scary!

Besides I'm short petite whatever you want to call it...I know I would look like an OOMPA LOOMPA if I get Fat

Exercising sucks at first. If your not conditioned you will feel like your going to die!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But once you push past this point its nothing but benefits and rewards ahead.
1. more energy
2. you look good
3. its a stress reliever
4. its fun
5. you get to wear sexy workout outfits (my sister makes fun of me bcuz I look cute while working out..she's there on a mission (to only workout )..but what she doesn't understand is I have 2 missions..1. workout 2. land any Pots. that are in the building HELLO!
6.its cool! (peer pressure...haha)


Here's the things I've been trying (switch it up):

1. dancing is great cardio...so, I turn on my AOL radio/ Pandora and dance like I'm up in the club. I drop it low and try to put in some exercise moves in there...lol
2. I do this spider man exercise excellent for core and legs
3. squats
4. resistance bands (live by)
5. (been doing for yrs) free style hiking though the woods (make sure you tell people if you do this one..we don't want you to get snatched off of a trail) I prefer to go off the trails and into danger..it makes me feel like I'm in a movie or something. haha
6.BUT MY NEW FAVORITE SO FAR OF ALL OF THEM....DRUM ROLL PLEASE.....
ZUMBA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I went to Zumba last night with my sister (for the first time)...OMG it is fun it is sexy and it is women (all races,shapes,sizes,and ages...hell its even men in the class) taking their health seriously. Its inspiring (Q the music).
I've been belly dancing for 6 years now. It's a great workout and it makes you feel absolutely beautiful!

But, Zumba is different type of dance...I believe it has a Spanish orientations (don't quote me or jump down my throat felines) but its mixed with so many different music genres. AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!! It's like being in the CLUB...LOL

I'm going to buy it for either my Wii or my bf Xbox (he was supposed to buy it for me last Christmas ..but got me a really nice pea coat and some other stuff instead..I needed a black one)

Keep in mind Felines that you don't have to have money to stay in shape! You can workout for free.


So, how can you exercise for free??????????????

1. see if you have a friend that has a gym membership (most gyms let their member's bring a friend to try to recruit new members) I currently don't have a gym membership both of my sisters have memberships to two different clubs in town (FYI Excellent place to free style...nothing but pots at these gyms) nothing but BALLERS & LUX.. vehicles in the parking lot...Thanks sisters!
2. YouTube has so many exercise videos that I use (type in what you want to workout )
3. Going to the park 
4. Swimming at your local pool/apartment pool (indoor)
5.  Dancing around the house
6. sex :)
7. Once you land your daddie tell him you want a gym membership ..so you can look sexy for him :)

Just get up and try is the best start! I am known for pushing play and just laying on my sofa watching the TV exercise.

My sister goes exercising 5-7x a week...
yeah not me ...lol You body is supposed to have a day or two of rest.
I go hard on the days I exercise and then ressssst....lol

The 1st step I think to being a great S.B. or person is to love and be comfortable with yourself & not be afraid to tweak things you don't like here and there!
Never change for anyone but yourself. Men like confidence..so If your trying to land a Daddie or a husband you need to love you and he will to.

Your Beautiful Damn it!
~Caramell Seduction

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The WATCHER!

Hey Felines! So the watcher is a guy that I met on S.A. nice enough guy. His profile was pretty normal. Once we started to correspond he informs me that he wants to have a M.F.M.(3-some with him me and another man). I'm going to be honest I had to look up  what the hell m.f.m was because I had no clue..lol

Now, maybe being from being from the mid-west can make me a little naive to the "goings on" in other parts of the world. lol I'm sure there are people in the Midwest who indulge in all types on kinky fantasies and fetishes. lol
When I was in high school I heard of guys double banging girls but according to him this would be more evolved. lol
It's completely about the women. It's not about "banging" its actually about worshiping the women like a goddess.
Hmmmmmm....I love to daydream at work. And I'm not going to lie...I was thinking about these men feeding me grapes..haha

So, he told me he would get off on seeing me have sex with another man. He doesn't have to touch me at all...just wants to watch ( not the first time I've been asked this from a pot on S.A.). Too bad my man(B.F.) don't play that! Because we could put on a really good show for his ass...we are so nasty it might make him change his mind about being a watcher....lol (t.m.i. I know! lol sometimes I get carried away :) 

We will see.

 Do you Felines think that Fetishes (that aren't yours) should cost extra in the monthly allowance?


If one is lucky, a solitary fantasy can totally transform one million realities. 
            ~Maya Angelou 


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THE BREEDER !

The breeder caught my eye because he was an ok looking millionaire and I enjoyed reading his profile. It wasn't until I gave him my email address that he informed me of what he was really looking for. Now, some women my have excepted his offer but for me money isn't everything. I mean you have to have some standards and some limits.

We got along great. His emails had me ready to jump on a plane and go meet him. He was a married s.d. I have no problem with that. Sometime I prefer a married one because they know to leave me alone and take the drama home..lol SOME OF THEM AT LEAST...lol

So, he tells me that what he seeks is a young women to have children with. That I would be a kept women and all would be legally binding and our children and myself would never have to worry or want a thing.

NOW, THIS HAD MY ATTENTION  Since I do want children and what women wouldn't want to hear those words, right! Never have to worry about a thing.

So, I asked more questions ( Im sure I drove him nuts...lol) how would this work if your married? Why would you want to do this to your wife? How would you visit us? how often would we see you? *****MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION:

How involved in our children's lives would you be?

His response is why I say that money isn't everything to me.

He says to me " I wouldn't be involved in the children's lives. I don't want to leave my wife (which I already knew..I'm not stupid) and I would never see them. But, you would never have to worry about anything. You and the children would be taken care of even after my death.

I was like thank you for your complete honesty but this is something that I have to digest.

There are to many single mothers out here with children who thought that the dads were going to be stand up guys. Money is only one aspect to raising kids. 

How would I respond to my kids on where their father is and why they never met him?!? 

What would happen if they found out about me having them for a man who never wanted them to begin with...in exchange for $$$$$$

Would they respect me? Probably Not!

I think he didn't want to leave this earth without knowing he had children to pass on his legacy. 

But, I think he's going about it all wrong. If he was involved then I would have took a little longer to think about my answer of NO...lol

Come on now!!!! My Daddy (biological not sugary) didn't raise no damn fool!!!! 

You can always change a will in testament.

  His family could always contest (and I assure you that they will because there is no way anyone would let a 20 something year old mistress keep their family money) so our money (our children) would be caught up in probate court....that could take years.

 SO, now little ol' me struggle with these kids by myself (which I would love unconditionally). HELLLLLLL NO! REALLLLLLLY?

It just doesn't work for me!! As much as it would be nice to have a rich wealthy man's baby....I would rather be the wife (without a prenuptial agreement)  and the mother of his children....now lets think about how much money that is!

People put themselves (especially women) in fucked up predicaments and ask GOD why them. Think before you act people! It's not GOD's fault that you went after something so shallow then to wait for something better that HE could give you.

So, no thanks I'll just wait! ON THE MONEY,THE MAN, & CHILDREN! haha

P.S.

My next post Ill try to post today is about the watcher...lol

Everything that glitters isn't platinum and diamonds!

~ CaramellSeduction

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FANTASIES...A COUPLE?

Have any Felines ever had a sugary couple? By couple I mean married,dating, engaged,committed to each other...you know a couple. The reason I ask this is because  lately I've been receiving emails and even in public been approached by married/dating couples trying to date me or sleep with me. Now in real life I turn this down. My city is extremely to small (not really) to be carrying on like that...l.o.l And since I'm a private person something like this could never work for me in Real Life.
In the sugary world I have been winked and emailed since I first put up my profile by couples.

 I've been having fantasies lately of have a sugar daddie and then his wife finds out and she then wants to have a 3-some to heal her pain.
Are fantasies supposed to remain just that...fantasies?

I have never been with a women. But the idea has entered my mind (I would never admit in R.L.) before of what it would be like to experience a women's  kisses all over (but the sex how does that even work...i.d.k)
But, I've always pushed the thought out of my mind because what would it be like after....lol

Plus, I would be extremely picky... probably worse then any man would be. lol
I wouldn't be seeking perfection but just perfection to me. Yes, to even to kiss or sleep with. I mean why should my standards change just because its a women. Right?

Would a women be drama? Isn't drama free one of the perks of being in a sugary relationship? 
What if they fall in love with me? What if he falls in love with me? Would she be jealous.  Or what if  she falls in love with me? What would do to there relationship. Or worse vice versa!

So, recently I had a couple email me. The s.d. pot was handsome and well spoken. He then told me that him and his wife were seeking a girlfriend. Honestly, I almost deleted the email but I told him that I would hear him out. He then emailed me personally and sent me more pictures. She was beautiful (body included) Both older then me but you guys know I like older men....
Hmmmmmm a women? 
Then she emailed me. She comes across as down to earth and nice. Hmmmm I.D.K. 
Tell me Felines....have you ever thought about being with a women/ opposite sex? How about a couple? Would that make you gay? Or Bi? 
Just wondering your thoughts Felines.

P.S.
I have two other post Im going to try to post today. 1 about a millionaire who wanted me to have his babies...lol
2nd one about a man who wanted to have a 3 some with men with another man..
I love the sugary world. lol

Fantasy mirrors desire. Imagination reshapes it. 
~Mason Cooley


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HEY FELINES!!!! It was still in draft folder wrote months back.

It's all God...I can't take any credit!


SugarBrownUK....Hey Girl!

Thank you for the compliment. I went through a lot of rough times before I got to this point and believe me it is all God!


 It's nice being able to travel and write my own ticket in life.... but it isn't as glamorous as it sounds. I literally live out of a suite case...go to bed at about 7 pm like an old person when I'm away for work..lol
All my co-workers make fun of me...(Im usually one of the youngest there)
...But, I look at it like this: I'm here away from my family and love ones (whatever city I maybe in at the time) to work and  make money/ not to have fun! 


Just stay in school and never let anyone make you feel like you can't reach whatever goal(s) you may have for yourself. If you don't know what you want to do you yet....school is the best place to start even if you don't finish. It will all make sense once you reach your goal/dream like a puzzle fitting together.


P.S...It doesn't matter weather your in university/trade school/local college/or working (because school just isn't your thing)...your doing something that will help form your future...that's all that matters!


For the feline who can't stand working for other people or who finished college and can't find a job..starting your own business maybe the direction you want to take.


Find something your good at that other people think is hard or just cant do or don't want to do (..because their lazy) and make that your nitch! You can create a business out of anything.


Shit!  My last business was a small bakery from my kitchen :) I had a tutoring business :) and everyone knows about my nail salon that the recession wiped away like a hurricane..lol :(
So never give up!


As far as the $ugar. To me it's always been more important that I meet a Daddie/men/b.f. that elevate my mind rather then my body. So, finding out what a Daddie does for a living is just as important as the allowance.
 If you have the right Daddie he can direct you in ways that college could never because he's had so many life experiences. That my Felines is called Priceless!


Sugar doesn't last forever and as nice as it maybe to have that "Pretty Women" Fantasy...it's just that a fantasy..It can happen but that isn't an everyday thing and so we as Babies/Felines have to stay focused on our futures.


I came across so many Felines before I started blogging that was huge inspirations to me. Thanks FELINES!!!
 They offered excellent advice. 


I think that if your always willing to listen then people are willing to teach you what they know (my dad always told me that biological not sugary)


So, I realize that I still suck and haven't been blogging like I promised. But, I took sometime off of work so hopefully I'll be able to blog my little fingers off like the old days!
NOW ON TO THE SUGA:


I'm still with my old Daddie. He's great. Its an amazing thing to have a C.E.O. who is also a business lawyer as your friend. He gives me some of the greatest advice.


I have been spinning every possible Pot. that emails me because of work so I think that I will reach out and meet some of them next week. 


I met a few on my last business trip and it was just ok.


 One poor guy took me to a really nice restaurant. I was really happy to be there since I eat junk all day on my work trips. I was so damn yummy I wanted to date myself (how vain is that lol).


I had on a pencil skirt, a tight fitted tank top, nude (to damn high) pumps, my hair was down with big spiral curls and pinned up on 1-side.
 I was to tired to be on any date and kept looking at my watch because I was up way passed my bedtime( time listed above)..haha
 I could sense him being annoyed so I ended the date early by tell him I had to get up really early (which was the truth 4:30 am) would call he to let him know I made it back to my hotel. He was a very handsome man....nice but he was kind of blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. lol


Guy#2. 
We met right after I got off...well, at least that's what I told him...lol (I'm a little stinker). I flew back to the hotel(in the car not plane) jumped in the shower put my hair in a side braid put on business casual outfit and rushed to meet him at the local "Panera Bread."
He told meand I quote  "I looked beautiful he couldn't believe I was just getting  off after a 12hr. shift."
 I told him "your just being kind".haha If he only knew..lol
We laughed and had a ball. I may see him again when I return in October. He was handsome with a a cool sexy swagger. I saw him towards the end of my trip...so it was only that one time. He isn't married and have no kids. That can be a good thing and a bad thing.
It's always a nice thing to know your not messing with someone else's relationship, right? But, if he's attached that means he has more to loose and won't become clingy or worse a stalker. But, the distance between us will help some with that. 
I.D.K. we will see and of course I will keep you up on the latest gossip.


Go after what you want in life no matter what other's/hater's  say. They are really envious of your ambition and your strive to reach your goals/ just your swagger.


DO YOU!


~ CaramellSeduction




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