Law And Order SUV

Quick post Felines!
Lol. There is a law an order svu episode about a sugar daddie sugar babie relationship. Unfortunately there never seems to be anyone who is strong enough to say that nothing is wrong with a sugary arrangement.
I'm so sick of sb being presented in such a negative light. So annoying !

Know who you are Felines because the world will try to convince you...your someone else!
~Caramell Seduction

An Escort!!!!!??!!!!

Hey Felines!
I get a message today from a guy who lives in Canada.
O God! Not another Canada. Lol
This guy sent me a message say that he wants an escort.
Lol. Are you kidding me. There is nothing wrong with being an escort if you choose to be. But, I get to emotionally invested once I start having sex. So, being an escort won't workout for me.
I replied back to him "I am not an escort and they have sites for that. Maybe you should try one of those sites instead of s.a. ". Of course, no reply. Lol
I'm starting to wonder is all of Canada. A bunch of flakes? Lol

Has any babies dated in R.L. Or Sugary Bowl that from Canada?
Just wondering. Lol

Stand your ground babies your s.d. Will come to you!
~CaramellSeduction

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LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES FELINES! MY SUGARY GROWTH.

LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES FELINES!

      I was contacted by a former Pot. Who was a complete "Timewaster." You remember Canada. 

Well, ladies he's back. Let me refresh your memories on why I call him a time waster.  He has access to airplanes and he  lives in well you know Canada..lol 

He came to see me I believe twice. I was really feeling this guy. We talked,emailed,and texted a lot! 
His dad got sick and I was there emotionally for him as much as any baby,girlfriend, or wife would be. He's purpose in being on the site was to strictly fuck (excuse my Language)! He never had any intentions on providing an allowance. He asked me to come into his hotel for a "night cap". Are fuckin' kidding me! I don't don't do night caps with anyone that I'm not in a relationship with!
Sugar bowl or R.L..!
So, once I figured it all out I called him out on his B.S. and he told me he wasn't in a good predicament to have a s.b. at the moment. Mind you we meet on S.A. 
lol...Which is a site for a man to meet a sugar babie. Which means you should be ready to pay up! 
Right?????
Well, he wasn't and so....there really wasn't much for us to discuss after that! lol

He left a very bad taste in my mouth! I've come across time wasters since him but it's much shorter and the discover is a lot sooner. So, maybe I should thank Canada for heighting my senses. lol
But, as far as a second chance I'm just not that forgiving this year!
Have I mentioned that he has another picture on his profile that I believe isn't him. I forget names but never a face!

In my Google Voice his name came up and that's how I figured out who he was. He was texting me simultaneously from both his cellphones. Like you don't remember coming to this damn city!

 Go back and read my post about him.

 We went to a members only restaurant that I set up. So, I assure you he remembers everything about my city and me!
He knew exactly who I was once I called him out on it.
Screw it..You know how I do Felienes..Hear is the transcripts from my G.V. account...haha

Me: Hey this is Caramell Seduction from s.a. 2:00 PM

Canada: I think i got something from ur google voice, but it wasnt a picture. 3:06 PM

Canada: ....@gmail.com 3:15 PM

Me: Have we talk before 3:15 PM

Canada: I think so 3:16 PM

Canada: Have U changed ur name? 3:17 PM

Me: Screen name. 3:17 PM

Canada: Caramell Seduction 3:18 PM

Me: I've seen u before. Remember. 3:18 PM

Canada: Yep 3:18 PM

Canada: How have U been? Miss U 3:18 PM

Me: Yup 3:18 PM

Me: Whatever. I'm good u 3:19 PM

Canada: Im good 3:19

Candad: Ur still lookin I see 3:20 PM

Me: Your picture looks different 3:20 PM

Canada: Im older, wiser, sexier now and U have to admit all that. :D 3:20 PM

Me: I have to admit what ? 3:21 PM

Canada: What I just said. 3:22 PM

Me: How can I admit that? 3:22 PM

Me: I haven't talked to u to know that 3:23 PM

Canada: K 3:23 PM

Canada: Good luck in ur search, If doesnt work for us. 3:23 PM

He tried to call me but I rejected his call (3:23pm) Then he sent the last message (above)...lol

I'm quite sure he's still out there trying to screw whatever he can without offering anything in exchange. The cheap ass bastered didn't even give give me gas money! Mistake on my part.

I'm happy that he tried to contact me again because I'm able to see my sugary growth since him. Thank Canada

Now, I don't go anywhere to meet anyone...I don't care how far you've flown in to meet me.
That's the first test in meeting a pot. that's transitioning from Online to R.L. as far as I'm concerned. lol

The basics is business! Once past the basics then you can go for more of a connection. But, not before! Don't give any breaks or make any excuses for a Pot.
YOU don't know them nor Do YOU owe them anything!!!!
So, being a little tough at this stage should be a lot easier then later on once you realize that you like him...lol
Or once you start to daydream about your allowance or clothing/gifts you may receive or how great ya'll would be together!

Learn from my mistakes MY Felines,Kittens,Cubs!

Thanks For Reading :)


I've learned that men like it direct. A man today told me" you can never be to direct!" I know it goes against everything society has told us that a lady/women should do/be but this is the bowl and not regular society. It's mutually beneficial in this Bowl. Just make sure you get yours!!!!
~Caramell Seduction

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Is It Just Me??????

Hey Felines!!!
Is it just me or does it seem like the quality of men are dissolving on s.a. ? The quantity is probably at an all time high but the quality not so much. So today I check my email and a guy who I've corresponded with only once stated "If would just like to meet for a drink and then suck and fuck that would be nice" to which I responded "

I'm looking for a sugar daddy not a one night stand. I don't have sex w anyone the first day I meet them. I prefer to build a connection first. So if this isn't what your looking for I wish you the best in your search."
That was me being polite. Theses fake men are killing me. That's not even being a gentlemen. We're they raised by wolves. Gosh!!!! Where is S.A. Advertising for these freaks? Shit I hate to admit but I have more positive responses on A.M.

I said it before and ill say it again.
~know your worth!
Caramellseduction

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I DON'T NEED YO JUSTIFY MYSELF 2 YOU!!!

Hey Felines!
I hope everyone's holidays were great. Mine was good. So on to sugary business.
So I was on S.A. and received an email from a very young and handsome guy. I prefer not to sugar date guys in my age bracket. They always want something for nothing! This time was no exception. But, I thought I would roll with it and see how it plays out.
So. As usual he tells me "this is my first time. I really don't want to have to pay for a relationship. I don't need to because I look good and I'm successful. But, your beautiful and your profile caught my attention. I want to be in a relationship and I wouldn't mind taking you to nice restaurants shopping and trips when I get vacation time at work."
Huh! I get that shit from my boyfriend. It is so frustrating being a baby and these guys want something for nothing.
But, like I said earlier I rolled with it. We ailed each other back and forth. I enjoyed his personality that I was able to view. I was booed up this weekend ;) so I wasn't able to respond to his text messages. In this time period he used it to dissect my profile.
So when I returned the text he sent me this morning he say "may I ask you a question"
I said sure. He says "you said you like that I'm loyal. But your profile says that it's ok for a married men to contact you. "
I replied yes it does. There are many different types of sugary relationship. You don't have to have sex to be in a sugar relationship. Most married men just want someone to talk to. You came up with a lot from a profile.
He says "I just do my due diligence."
Lol. I said due diligence. It's listed on my profile. It was there when you contact ME! Lol
This is my thoughts of this situation. I am an adult just like you. Don't question me. I chose to answer one of your questions. But after that. I don't have to explain myself about choices I choose to make about my life. You are a stranger that I only texted for a few days.
Who the hell do you think you are! If I wanted to FUCK your daddy I could and not have to explain shit to you or yo momma!!!!
Ok damn that was a little harsh. Lol
But true!!!
So, I have a few more youngings in my holster. But, I'm share they will pissed me off to. Young guys who think they want to be s.d. Are still way to wet behind the ears. They aren't humble enough for me. They are so full of themselves.
So, my sugary resolution this year is to cut through the fat! If we don't mesh. Goodbye. Fuck negotiating. This is the allowance that I want. The end!
Sent yourself a sugary resolution. I would love to hear it ;)

You owe no one explanations about your life! Wish them the best and sen them on their way! In the bowl or r.l.
~Caramell Seduction

Happy new year!!!!

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Sugar Babie Facebook

Hey Felines!

Ya'll know I'm not into the whole social media thing. I'm a extremely private person and don't like my business plastered all over the web (except for my blog & work stuff :). 
So, I get made fun of for not being into the whole facebook/tweeter/instgram...craze! lol

Which brings me to my question....How many SB/Felines have a  "Sugar Babie Facebook pages? " 
Does any pots. contact you on your page or is it just another place to vent/document  your SB journey?

Thanks Felines

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GET IT TIGHT...GET IT RIGHT!

Travelling for work is the most unhealthy thing in the world! I usually don't gain weight in the winter time..I loss anywhere between 2-10 lbs. every winter. I'm a pretty healthy eater (I always always & only drink water) except when I'm under contract for work. 
Lets make one thing known now...I love my curves! People pay for a body like this! But, I'm gaining only in my hips.. What the hell????lol 

Which is fine but I like to be internationally attractive and appetizing..lol..so I just want to tone up. 

The crazy thing is my scale says that I haven't gained any weight...that I am the exact 115lbs. that I've always been.. my exercise leggings are fitting to big (yucky saggy). IDK???!!!

So, I'm not much for complaining and not going for results. I've been exercising my ass  hips off....WE WANT TO KEEP THE ASS! lol

The women at the gym were  telling me that I didn't need to be at the gym because they wish that they had my shape...but what I tried to explain is that I'm there to maintain my sexy not really trying to get rid of it!

Felines you have no idea how many older women come up to me (daily) and tell me that they used to have my same curves and they wish that they would have exercised. That shit is scary!

Besides I'm short petite whatever you want to call it...I know I would look like an OOMPA LOOMPA if I get Fat

Exercising sucks at first. If your not conditioned you will feel like your going to die!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But once you push past this point its nothing but benefits and rewards ahead.
1. more energy
2. you look good
3. its a stress reliever
4. its fun
5. you get to wear sexy workout outfits (my sister makes fun of me bcuz I look cute while working out..she's there on a mission (to only workout )..but what she doesn't understand is I have 2 missions..1. workout 2. land any Pots. that are in the building HELLO!
6.its cool! (peer pressure...haha)


Here's the things I've been trying (switch it up):

1. dancing is great cardio...so, I turn on my AOL radio/ Pandora and dance like I'm up in the club. I drop it low and try to put in some exercise moves in there...lol
2. I do this spider man exercise excellent for core and legs
3. squats
4. resistance bands (live by)
5. (been doing for yrs) free style hiking though the woods (make sure you tell people if you do this one..we don't want you to get snatched off of a trail) I prefer to go off the trails and into danger..it makes me feel like I'm in a movie or something. haha
6.BUT MY NEW FAVORITE SO FAR OF ALL OF THEM....DRUM ROLL PLEASE.....
ZUMBA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I went to Zumba last night with my sister (for the first time)...OMG it is fun it is sexy and it is women (all races,shapes,sizes,and ages...hell its even men in the class) taking their health seriously. Its inspiring (Q the music).
I've been belly dancing for 6 years now. It's a great workout and it makes you feel absolutely beautiful!

But, Zumba is different type of dance...I believe it has a Spanish orientations (don't quote me or jump down my throat felines) but its mixed with so many different music genres. AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!! It's like being in the CLUB...LOL

I'm going to buy it for either my Wii or my bf Xbox (he was supposed to buy it for me last Christmas ..but got me a really nice pea coat and some other stuff instead..I needed a black one)

Keep in mind Felines that you don't have to have money to stay in shape! You can workout for free.


So, how can you exercise for free??????????????

1. see if you have a friend that has a gym membership (most gyms let their member's bring a friend to try to recruit new members) I currently don't have a gym membership both of my sisters have memberships to two different clubs in town (FYI Excellent place to free style...nothing but pots at these gyms) nothing but BALLERS & LUX.. vehicles in the parking lot...Thanks sisters!
2. YouTube has so many exercise videos that I use (type in what you want to workout )
3. Going to the park 
4. Swimming at your local pool/apartment pool (indoor)
5.  Dancing around the house
6. sex :)
7. Once you land your daddie tell him you want a gym membership ..so you can look sexy for him :)

Just get up and try is the best start! I am known for pushing play and just laying on my sofa watching the TV exercise.

My sister goes exercising 5-7x a week...
yeah not me ...lol You body is supposed to have a day or two of rest.
I go hard on the days I exercise and then ressssst....lol

The 1st step I think to being a great S.B. or person is to love and be comfortable with yourself & not be afraid to tweak things you don't like here and there!
Never change for anyone but yourself. Men like confidence..so If your trying to land a Daddie or a husband you need to love you and he will to.

Your Beautiful Damn it!
~Caramell Seduction

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